After working on and trying out Mystery's indirect opinion openers, to my experience it is pretty challenging to do it in a loud club. I think it all boils down to my delivery as I have a really bad habit of getting adrenaline rush, getting my energy level really high and talk very quickly. Last night I blew up a set after opening when the girls asked me to slow down.
So to expand my bank of usable openers and simplifying, I create a few of my own and would like some opinion on them from you guys:
1) Cute couple opener
This opener works for sets with guy(s) in them. Basically you go into a set, point to the target and the guy next to her and say "You know, you guys look like a really cute couple!" Theoretically speaking, this opener could potentially ruin someone's game if that girl is not attracted to that guy as the girl will go "What?! He's not my boyfriend!", and this is where you come in and build attraction.
I tested this out a few times and it got me to the hook point really easily as the guys are disarmed and welcomed me into the set. Sometimes I feel the target losing interest in the guy and gave me IOIs. Unfortunately I didn't really know how to escalate from there and I ejected soon after.
2) Think I'm hot? opener
Basically this opener is the opposite of a direct opener, here's how the opener goes:
Me: All right I have a really important question for you (Give a serious face)
Her: What is it??
Me: You think I'm hot?? (Give her a sexy and playful smile)
Ideally the outcome should be laughter, or her agreeing. I haven't really tested this opener out in nightclubs yet but I have tested it in college. There was once during the start of a lecture a girl came sat next to me and I tried this out; she laughed and we began chatting afterwards. So far this seems a pretty good and fun opener to use.
3) Give me a spin opener
So far into the game, I have not came across any advices on dance floor game. I have to admit I am really bad with dance floor game and I avoid it wherever possible. Nonetheless I forced myself to go onto the dance floor earlier today and I worked out this opener before going in. Indirect openers are of course out of the option for dance floor game.
Basically you get into the dance floor, get next to your target and make your presence known by hip bumping her. After that you get in front of her, ask for her hand and a spin. If she complies and held your hand tight (an IOI), you're in.
I had semi-success with this opener earlier on, I manage to get my target to give me a spin but she wasn't holding my hand tight and let go of it pretty quickly. The problem was that I broke the 3-second rule, I danced next to her for a really long time trying to get over AA, and I think I creeped her out. I definitely need more practice with this opener.
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It's a fun opener to use and it allows you to reach the hook point pretty easily since the guys are disarmed. I've done this once and the guys practically welcomed me into the set. It also could potentially ruin some other guy's game too if your target is not attracted to the guy who is trying to hit on her. But the key thing is know how to stack forward after the opener and build attraction.