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Author:  HashFlow [ Fri Aug 02, 2013 1:46 am ]
Post subject:  approach at the gym
Wassup fellas sorry for the long read but i need assistance....theres a chick at my gym and to me she makes it kinda obvious that she wants me to talk to her. Some of these would be her walking around the area im working out at looking like shes going out of her way just to be close or her standing blatenly in the way of the machine im going to use as im already using it and the most obvious would be her giving a little smile when we made eye contact...my issue is I cant find a decent way to approach her cuz I feel awkward walking up to a girl whos tryin to workout and has headphones on and is usually with a girl friend...so from what I described what do yall think? Sorry again for the long post lol
Author:  Urbanerefine [ Sat Aug 03, 2013 2:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: approach at the gym
curios about this myself but immediately I would say avoid speaking to her at an exercise machine unless you were going to do styles chair switch, which involves a palm reading or some sort of routine In order to catch her interest.
basically
open
mind if I show you something.
take her hands and stand her up.
rotate her so u can sit down and she is now standing.
say I just wanted to use your machine and grin.
hopefully shell see your kidding
just joking, ill only be a second as I have to get back to my work out (time constraint.) here check this out... (run routine)
build moxy and comfort followed by either a bounce to a bar after you've both finished or num close.

hope this helps :)
Author:  User13247 [ Sat Aug 03, 2013 4:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: approach at the gym
Change your mindset: a smile is an invitation to come over and talk. The only thing that you can do to fuck it up, is doubting your own ability. An approach can only be awkward if you allow it to make you feel awkward.

Just introduce yourself, and mention that you saw her beautiful smile. Talk about gym/study/work stuff for a bit, then ask if she would like it if you called her sometime. Text something funny before you leave the gym, call her the same night to set up a meeting. Doesn't work out? Who gives a shit, there are plenty of girls (another change of mindset I suppose).
Author:  Zapend [ Sun Aug 04, 2013 8:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: approach at the gym
Whenever women are direct, the only fuck up in my opinion is either to not take full advantage of the situation, or to be distastefully direct. I would tell her that you have seen her looking at you and have been looking at her, too, and just see where the conversation goes from there. Let's have lunch together? Is that what is supposed to happen? You know, whatever.
Author:  sparty10 [ Sun Aug 04, 2013 3:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: approach at the gym
Thanks for the post. I have the same issue.
I go to the gym 4 to 5 times a week and there are sometimes really beautiful women ... but it feel weird to go talk to them, especially in front of everyone. Usually they do cardio and no workout so I have to get past everyone to go talk to her.
What to do in those situation ? Wait for her to finish her cardio and then go talk to her ?
Author:  LafnPimp [ Wed Aug 07, 2013 10:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: approach at the gym
I usually wait till we meet at the water drink area, and really lightly say 'jeez don't you have a rest day' with a big smile, and then I'll say 'relax would ya' .. Most of the time I flirt and leave so next time is connection time. Might seem like lower value because you're mentioning the fact you've noticed her there all the time, but usually this is a girl with heavy eye contact and it's maturely obvious the attraction is there. I might be fucking it up by leaving but it's all up to you guys how to play it.

The gym is a hard place because they're there for 1 thing and usually I am too, but sometimes that one or two is just attraction city and it's fun to play :)
Author:  Jazzzz [ Thu Aug 08, 2013 3:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: approach at the gym
Quote:
Wassup fellas sorry for the long read but i need assistance....theres a chick at my gym and to me she makes it kinda obvious that she wants me to talk to her. Some of these would be her walking around the area im working out at looking like shes going out of her way just to be close or her standing blatenly in the way of the machine im going to use as im already using it and the most obvious would be her giving a little smile when we made eye contact...my issue is I cant find a decent way to approach her cuz I feel awkward walking up to a girl whos tryin to workout and has headphones on and is usually with a girl friend...so from what I described what do yall think? Sorry again for the long post lol
Ask her to share the machine, if she says yes and you're built show her how to do it right, then escalate to
- Why she trains
- Any sports
- Who would win in an arm wrestle between her and her friend
- if theyre in school
- If they wanted to try your favourite ________ (muscle) exercise, have them follow you.
Author:  Digital_Spy [ Sun Aug 11, 2013 6:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: approach at the gym
Tell her 'You still look a bit fat. Must try harder' then walk away laughing.
Author:  Digital_Spy [ Sun Aug 11, 2013 6:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: approach at the gym
Quote:
Tell her 'You still look a bit fat. Must try harder' then walk away laughing.
Forgot to add that should get her attention if anything. Be nice to her after that. If she'll let you of course.
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