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| Author: | Punchfacer [ Fri Jul 26, 2013 10:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Having fun in conversations? |
How do I have fun in conversations? I know how to talk. Have the confidence, but the thing is I HATE to "just talk" to people w/o an internal reason. So, to be more precise, what do you look for in conversations? What do you like? (Except talking about topics, cuz I'll never have a common interest with a girl that I CAN talk about, poker? PUA? bodybuilding? silly games? No.) This may seem like more of an inner-game issue to be honest. (Can't find motivation to talk, lol.) I think of lays as things I can easily pick-up as soon as I want to after I've connected with the girl. (no problem with sexual energy.) These are my priorities: 1. goal = Enjoying the conversations. 2. goal = Getting known. 3. goal = Laying. |
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| Author: | fishnwomen [ Fri Jul 26, 2013 4:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Having fun in conversations? |
Conversation is a skill like any other, it can be learned, and once you get past small talk it is actually really enjoyable even if you don't necessarily have a lot in common. To have more fun, get to deeper subjects, for example, when you ask about her career, you should prod a little more when she says she is a nurse, ask her "Why nursing? Why not become a doctor?" You will get to know her better, and she will feel more comfortable. Keep them talking about themselves, and be genuinely interested in other people. |
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