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| Author: | ThegameN00b [ Fri Jul 26, 2013 4:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | other guys stealing your girl? |
I hate it when I go to a club and I am hitting on girl or want to make my move but these other cockyguys will take the oppurtunity to move in on her when you leave or don't approach. How do I make all these guys look like chumps and be that charming guy she wants to take home. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Fri Jul 26, 2013 5:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: other guys stealing your girl? |
put less focus on what you don't want, and more focus on what you want if you are feeling insecure about other guys, you will focus in on them and create problems for yourself that don't exist in the first place, just drop the mindset that you even have to do anything to guys around you, just pay attention to the girls you are interested in, realize that every guy that is trying to talk to a girl you are trying to talk to is not trying ''amog'' you or cockblock, make some friends instead of enemies if you get the chance and just be patient and work on the girl you like, if she likes you she will be interested in you and you can just talk to her more and less to him, then it's just a matter of time until the guy blows himself out or gets bored and leaves, and if she is all up on some other guy and paying more attention to him then there is nothing you have to do to lower that guy, you just have to improve yourself and you can just always wait it out for the same shit, just matter of time until what ever guy blows himself out or get bored and gives up, the vast majority of guys have no game at all and will not even attempt to better their logistics or escalate, a good 9 times out of ten some guy will come up, say some shit, start trying to talk and it will go no where, maybe the girl laughs a bit or trys to flirt but it goes no where cause the guy doesn't lead or take risks, then it sort of stalls, one of the parties loses interest, it becomes stagnant and either the guy blows himself out or the girl blows him out by no longer investing if you want to show a girl you are charming and high status, then just demonstrate talent and a disparity in skill level via that talent, don't try to brag about it or try to be condescending and talk down to people because of it, just demonstrate that talent what ever it is and try to bring others up to your level and talk them up, and if there is a huge disparity in skill level try to make them feel secure about that, make friends and give them respect and they will respect you back, especially when they know you are talented, then you will have friends that look up to you if you're really bored I suppose you could troll people and that can be funny, but especially with guys that can lead to fights and problems that are not necessary and it's not very charming, at most it would get you a laugh or two at the expense of someone else and if you are really good at it possibly it could demonstrate that you are good at insulting people and fairly secure when being criticized/insulted (assuming you are good at insulting people in a way that makes people laugh implying a quick wit and are not very emotionally reactive, but most guys are not good at keeping a level head and suck at this sort of thing and it just ends up in pointless fights due to bloated egos having pissing contests that could have been avoided in the first place by just being cool and respectful instead of rude for a few laughs at someone the expense of someone else) |
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| Author: | fishnwomen [ Fri Jul 26, 2013 1:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: other guys stealing your girl? |
I think pumpington has this right. When I first started, I was insecure with other guys around- "what if he steals my girl I just gamed all night!" and a few times, that is what actually happened. It can even happen after dating a girl for years! It's more about not messing up than it is about saying everything perfectly. Another thing that helps me when I am out is avoiding alcohol, or limiting myself to only one or two. Other guys will get piss drunk and hit on girls, and I let them. I know that I am sober, and have my full awareness, which gives me an advantage over the competition. A lot of guys make fools out of themselves when they are drunk in front of a girl. Don't begrudge the other guys for trying, just put them in the spotlight, ask them questions, good chance they will mess up, because they won't be expecting questions from you. It's the difference between being on offense and defense. |
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