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| Author: | JayMoe [ Sat Jun 15, 2013 5:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Are girls really this nice when they blow you off? |
Ok, so most women consider me a really good looking guy. When I do pick up women, they usually call me "gorgeous, hot, sexy etc" That being said, last night I had a bunch of girls who said they had a boyfriend, but they were flattered by me approaching them. A few of them also volunteered that they would totally give them my number if they were single. My buddy says I give up too easily. One of them I joked with about giving her number anyway, I don't care if she has a boyfriend, and she seemed genuinely pissed off, "I'm not that kinda girl". Anyways, what is the general consensus? Are these really "shit tests" because when one of our other buddies was getting blown out, it was usually pretty damn obvious that the girls weren't interested. |
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| Author: | Booty Book [ Sat Jun 15, 2013 5:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Are girls really this nice when they blow you off? |
Well hes trying to say it doesn't matter if they are in a relationship or not, most women (people in general) are weak. If you persist or say the right things they would still fuck you. But ask yourself if thats what you want to do. If so then your buddy is right. If you genuinely dont care about the fact they are taken then by all means persist. The key to hitting on girls in relationships is keep them secluded from your friends and there friends. They will want to keep a good reputation and not be looked at as a slut. So try to get that number when your alone, and not have her feel like she doing anything dirty. I witness my friend pick up a girl one time with a funny line. Im sure he stole it from somewhere but anyway: Girls says "I have a boyfriend" Friend says "I like oranges alot" She says "What???" Friend says "Oh I thought we were talking about shit that didn't matter" She laughed, they fucked, end of story. Have fun, be safe, good luck brotha... |
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| Author: | JayMoe [ Sat Jun 15, 2013 8:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Are girls really this nice when they blow you off? |
I like that reply. Just something to break the ice over with and keep going. A couple of them were getting a bit touchy feely back and forth with me, but then their friends came over. Probably to help them avoid cheating on their bfs. You are definitely right about keeping them from their friends. One girl who kinda blew us out was by herself later on for a few minutes. She kept looking right at me and then kinda awkwardly looking at her phone hoping someone would text her or something. I totally shoulda gone and talked to her then right? |
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| Author: | Booty Book [ Sun Jun 16, 2013 8:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Are girls really this nice when they blow you off? |
Yea think about it, for women its tough they can't act like men (fuck who and when we want.) Everything they do gets broadcasted and turned into something negative. Women compete with other women. So she has to watch her back twice. Men on the other hand wouldn't rat on another man usually..even if they just met the dude. Yea that is a sign shes checking you out. Be safe don't get beat up, and dont bang my girl. |
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| Author: | JayMoe [ Mon Jun 17, 2013 12:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Are girls really this nice when they blow you off? |
Well I'm not really worried about getting beat up. I'm above average size and a background in BJJ. Not a guy who looks for fights though. But ya, I know I gotta approach more. Even when I do 10, I still think about the 10 I could have/should have went after. Things can only get better from here right? |
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| Author: | Broseidon55 [ Mon Jun 17, 2013 1:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Are girls really this nice when they blow you off? |
Be careful about continuing convos with chicks with boyfriends. They'll often use you for attention/validation for awhile and then peace, wasting your time. It can be done, but its usually not worth it in my experience. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Mon Jun 17, 2013 6:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Are girls really this nice when they blow you off? |
good points in this thread, not really worth it, great time to bounce after a girl says she not single since it's either true or she is currently not interested in either case it is likely less then ideal since single girls offer less logistical problems, easier to just find a single girl then to deal with a defensive girl looking out for her guy, or a defensive guy guarding his girl, or to deal with a crew of friends helping her make the ''right'' choices, on top of that if you put in the effort to get beyond all that and it's going good, how are you going to be able to trust some girl that broke some other guys trust with you, and OTOH after going through all the shitty logistics and successfully getting her alone and comfortable with you, she can just flirt with you and play around until she is turned on and just go back to her boyfriend at the end of the night instead of going home with you single girls don't present these kind of problems to the same degree, it's like the same logistics but there is less of a moral impact, so if she likes you and you guys are a team, you can deal with the friends and location more easily and there are less problems that are bound to present themselves if by don't care you mean girls that are unavailable are a turn on for you and you would like to actively seek out girls that are not single, then just be honest about not caring, allow her to feel as comfortable as possible about it by putting the responsibility in your hands and being non-judgemental about it, you don't have to make jokes or anything, just make sure it as easy for her as possible, let her know it's ok with you and keep it as secretive as possible, use as much discretion as possible and let her know you are on her team and will help her get away with it and if she's really not into it, don't be needy, just let it go and keep meeting people |
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