Before gaining the confidence from pua teachings, I only really picked up girls who had approached me, i wouldnt have dreamed of doing a cold approach, but I can now, although it takes a hell of a lot and I often find it hard to stick to the 3 second rule. However there is a situation i find myself struggling with. Approach invitations.
In a cold approach I have my own routines etc. and i work well. However, if i'm at a bar or a club and I see a girl giving me ioi's from across the room, I have almost no idea what to do. For a regular pua i imagine this is a great thing and can easily go and talk to her. But i find myself struggling to know what to do. Now since she has given me ioi's and has let me know she is open for approach, i can no longer 'cold approach'. It means going much more direct, which i really dont do well! So what do you people out there do when you get an approach invitation? Is it just as simple as going over and introducing yourself?
Also similarly, often i find myself walking through a club and a girl will come the opposite way and give me an ioi whilst moving (looking me in the eyes then up and down etc with a smile). Do I stop her? do i do a 180 and catch up to her?
Im sure it is very simple but I dont want to run the risk of having read the signs wrong and approaching a girl that isnt actually interested.
Thanks for your help!
