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| Author: | puppeteer4779 [ Wed Apr 10, 2013 11:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Approach Anxiety |
Any tips on how to overcome AA? |
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| Author: | Moscow [ Wed Apr 10, 2013 11:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Approach Anxiety |
Go and do it. Warm ip before hand by talking to someone that is working. If you see a potential set, just say something funny about them and smile. You dont have to stay and talk. But AA returns everyday no matter how many openners you deliver. The first openner is always the hardest. The rest of the day them turns easy amd fun. But it will return the next day. |
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| Author: | Alexxander [ Fri Apr 12, 2013 1:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Approach Anxiety |
Honestly for me, I just did this game where I said to hello to 40 people a day for a whole week. Afterwards I just focused on opening sets. Its scary, and honestly I still get a little bit of AA sometimes, but you have to remember one thing... You will never see these people again that you approached. So just have the attitude of not caring and have fun with it. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Sat Apr 13, 2013 4:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Approach Anxiety |
Quote: Any tips on how to overcome AA?
If you are at a bar/club act like you are the owner/manager. Literally. As long as you present yourself correctly, most people won't know the difference.Just ask "Are you guys having a good time?" to random people. It will get you used to approaching people who are strangers. Then you can worry about what you say as your opener. Don't over think shit. |
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| Author: | SE23 [ Sat Apr 13, 2013 11:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Approach Anxiety |
It is a difficult one, i have been overcome with this lately, i want to get out again so i can get over it ! |
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| Author: | NamelessHero [ Sun Apr 14, 2013 6:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Approach Anxiety |
Quote: Quote: Any tips on how to overcome AA?
If you are at a bar/club act like you are the owner/manager. Literally. As long as you present yourself correctly, most people won't know the difference.Just ask "Are you guys having a good time?" to random people. It will get you used to approaching people who are strangers. Then you can worry about what you say as your opener. Don't over think shit. but basically when starting perhaps it is best if you make it a long term project and advance gradually check this thread also how-to-destroy-approach-anxiety-vt159846.html#p763983 |
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