Hi everyone,
I posted in the PUA lounge ‘why is the dance floor a trap’. The dance floor seems to be a relativly hot topic. I used to be a night club dancer ($30 an hour is good for a uni stident!) and wanted to know how to best use this skill in PUA.
Disclaimer: I don’t want to sound like a jerk but I can move pretty well and danced for about 6 years three times a week. I’m not like some ‘so you think you can dance’ winner but could make it through the first audition, at which point they would find out I'm shit! Just some context for my preliminary field report (about 5 nights of random testing over the past two months).
HB 8.5 and above:
These are usually found on the dance floor with at least two other female friends. Most 8.5+ women don’t dance with a lot of movement or ‘flavour’ and stare at people around them like they are the hottest thing ever. They may talk and laugh with their friends with an attitude like ‘you are all so lucky to be on the same dance floor with me and my crew’.
I have found the best way to approach is to dance behind the target with your friends, while you imitating the targets moves ( the more skilled you are at imitating female dance moves the better, get the facials right!), if her friends look at you give them a big cheeky smile with a cocky / arrogant persona. The target will turn around to look at what her friends are cheeking out, as she does this turn around with your back to her and dance with your friends again.
There are three main outcomes from this action:
1: She taps you on the shoulder and has a go at you for paying her out. Your response.
‘I thought I liked your moves, but when I tried them I realised you could do better, show me the best you’ve got (cheeky smile, arrogant no big deal persona).’
Dance with her get some push / pull Kino then isolate off the floor and commence conversation game. You need to really pull out the stops and blow her off her feet here when she shows you the best she's got and you imitate it perfectly.
2: She turns around glares and goes back to dancing with her friends.
You then get eye contact with one of her friends (the ugliest) and start dancing and having fun with her, then after 30 seconds of fun proof, dance with the targets other friend. By this time the target wants some attention, so push / pull with her, if she gives good Kino reward her, if she doesn’t try to get close to you ignore her and dance with her friends. Once she has kino’d you enough (compliance test her) you isolate and commence conversation game.
3: Target and her friends ignore you.
Grab the closest 7+ female and use her and her friends as pawns. Most women have never had a guy dance really well with them and not grope or sleaze onto them, keep it clean and fun. It will cause a stir on the floor, then you can hopefully transition onto the ugliest of the targets friends. Commence scenario 2.
This seems to be what has worked for me so far (multiple number and kiss closes).
HB 6.5 to 8
Most will just be impressed you can dance! Dance with their friends, show them a clean, fun time, get some laughs, dance with the target, tell her she’s coming to the bar with you because you needs some water and talk shit on the way there and begin conversation PUA.
I used to just go out dance and have fun with friends (had a GF for a long long time) so all the dance floor stuff was very plutonic, I got accused of being gay a lot cos my energy was so much higher than other people (don’t go over the top imitating women, you DO look gay LOL), after the 'imitation' do some masculine moves eg from the movie Stomp the Yard .
Now I’m single I’ve realised you have to tone it down to not look gay!
I hope to have try variations on the above on at least 50 women in the next two weeks. I will have hard statistical data and hopefully a 'silver bullet' for dance floor approaching for all those PUA's that can move on a higher than average level.
PS EVERYONE can dance it just takes practice. I was $hit and started dancing in my sisters classes to get more flexable for basketball and prevent leg injury. Dancing is such great fun and the best fitness you can do. I recommend everyone does a class at least twice a week. In a year you will be good!
PPS If you would like me to test anything dance floor related just reply to this post and I'll let you know how it goes.
Cheers,
Rhubarb
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I ve heard guys saying that dancing raises your value. Trust me building up social proof by gaming sets is much more effective.
