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| Author: | LarryDavid [ Sun Mar 10, 2013 5:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Best way to work on eye contact? |
I have always been awful with eye contact due to my lack of confidence and self consciousness. Any tips on how to work on it? Thanks guys! |
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| Author: | Tommo1990 [ Sun Mar 10, 2013 5:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Best way to work on eye contact? |
What ive found that has worked for me, is just doing it, and adding in a smile. A few months back i could even look or smile at a chick due to being shy, but now i automatically give eye contact and smile at chicks. I dont even realise im doing it. |
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| Author: | Hitster [ Sun Mar 10, 2013 7:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Best way to work on eye contact? |
Yea it is really about forcing yourself to give eye contact and learning to be comfortable doing it. I recommend everytime you pass an attractive stranger to stare until she break eye contact. The trick is be able to have a very content face like a little smile then slowly start to smile. The reaction you want is a smile back. Go practice it in the mirror. You can also add a 'hi' in the middle of it. |
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| Author: | Tommo1990 [ Sun Mar 10, 2013 8:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Best way to work on eye contact? |
Hitster is on the money, holding eye contact with a chick, is a great start. I remember when i was 17, 5 years ago, i was so insecure and a chick smiled at me as she walked past, i thought she was just being friendly. Anyways found out she was in my hotel, i had found out previous to going if a woman holds eye contact with you for more then like 3-5 seconds she's interested. So as i walked past i stared her into the eyes, we had an "eye connection for about 8 seconds until i had gone past her and was looking in front of me, i knew she was in, but i never approached her, which is a learning curve. i learnt to live in the moment, dont say ill do it in 5 mins, or tomorrow. Lastnight i made eye contact and smiled at a chick, she smiled back. For the next 5 minutes, she was talking with her friends staring at me smiling. I was like ill do it later, as i went to leave i was like alright im gonna do it. To late a guy had bet me to it. Just do it or live with regret. |
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| Author: | sb89 [ Mon Mar 11, 2013 4:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Best way to work on eye contact? |
Something that help guys and helped me initially is to see what color their eyes are. Set a goal that you will write down the eye color for every person you talk to or see through out the day. This will definitely will help you. I know the writing part seems a bit much but if you are struggling, that effort is required on your part. |
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Mon Mar 11, 2013 8:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Best way to work on eye contact? |
I've never had a problem with eye contact. I suggest you stare into the eyes of every person you speak to throughout the day, male or female and don't look away until they do. Turn it into a game. Whoever looks away first loses the game! |
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