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Author:  TheStudent [ Fri Jan 18, 2013 1:00 am ]
Post subject:  Opening stranger on Facebook.

Makes me sound like a creep but hear me out. Was out on Saturday with a few friends and for the first time ever, wasn't interested in going to meet women but just have a good time. Must add, when I'm usually out, I will have a look at nearly every girl I see. Didn't do this last weekend but something strange happened. They seemed to be attracted to me.

When in the club at the end of the night, was dancing and just not really giving a fuck, when this girl approached me and started grinding for a bit and then seemed to be pointing at her friend and it seemed like she was trying to get me with her. Now I was a bit confused as I'm not sure if they were just having fun or if her friend was actually interested. When I looked towards her she always smiled at me. Nothing happened as I basically pussy out of every situation like this. Still trying to change that.

Well the clubs take photos and while looking to see if there were any of me, I came across photos of her and she's been tagged in them. Should I try and message her to ask or would that come across as really creepy? Not sure on what I'd actually say so any suggestions? Or would it be best to just forget it and add it to this list of failure?

Author:  Robby [ Sat Jan 19, 2013 2:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Opening stranger on Facebook.

How about being a man and fucking trying?

Author:  jotsmar [ Sun Jan 20, 2013 9:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Opening stranger on Facebook.

Deffinately message her man. You were getting IOIs and you didnt take advantage on the night so maybe you've still got a chance if you go for it. The worst that can happen is you get ignored and you learn a lesson. You can only benefit.

As for suggestions, how about something relating to the night you saw her. Maybe something you noticed about her dress sense or some jewelery she was wearing. If not perhaps just ask how her night was, keep it simple and dont overthink is the best advice i can give for this situation.

Hope things go the way you want.

Author:  Sh4rp [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 5:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Opening stranger on Facebook.

Quote:
Well the clubs take photos and while looking to see if there were any of me, I came across photos of her and she's been tagged in them. Should I try and message her to ask or would that come across as really creepy? Not sure on what I'd actually say so any suggestions?
Fuck yes. Just be like "Hey, I just got tagged in this same photo of you, weren't you that girl that was grinding on me that night? I seem to remember but I was way too drunk that night."

or

"I just found this photo of us, weren't you the girl that kept pointing to her friend while dancing with me? What was up with that? I thought you were trying to imply that your friend was into me."

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