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What you guys never seem to realize is that the night before she agreed to "hang out" with you, she had a long argumentative discussion with her borefriend about how he doesn't treat her right and how he is going to lose her if he doesn't clean up his act. At this point he already halfway out the door, but since he was previously her boyfriend, and since she hasn't told you that they are completely broken up yet, you just assume they are still together like normal.

That's why I don't have any issue with messing with girls with bf's or stealing them away from their bf's. Because it is very common for women to transition from one boyfriend to another by losing interest in one while gaining interest in the next. I call it the "phase out". Whenever your girl starts giving you a bunch of shit, she's beginning to phase you out and will be looking for guys who treat her better or whom she likes more. Then she justifies cheating on you or dumping you by convincing herself that you were just a bad boyfriend and you deserved it.

Author:	needyouradvice [ Sun Dec 30, 2012 10:37 pm ]
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So this girl and I are planning to "hang out" in my dorm to watch a scary movie on a friday night the week we get back to college. The problem is that she has a boyfriend BUT she does know FOR SURE that I like her. So i'm pretty confused as to whether she likes me or if I'm just a friend to her. Even after finding out I liked her, we still keep in contact and text a lot (I stopped texting her cause my friend told me to. Just to see what would happen). If it makes a difference we planned to hang out a few days after I told her I liked her.

Author:	Heartnet [ Mon Dec 31, 2012 12:13 am ]
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who doesnt like attention and be desired???? You are becoming an orbiter. This is what I call, the "S.H.I.T" Method. Show high Interest then stall, why they are doing this because they want have an option and that way they can tell themselves "see there is other guys that like me so I can choose" Honestly, if you are not JUST on planing to be her friend, then tell her clearly that " you are not her emotional tampon and you do not want to be just friend." Maybe not in those exact words. I know is harsh words, but you need to hear about it, because if you are busy orbiting a girl you will not see all other opportunity around you. Here is a good source, very harsh way to explain relationship: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2lwNe- ... RaneAlfSGg

Author:	Dionysiux [ Mon Dec 31, 2012 12:31 am ]
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I would go sexual. If she bites then cool, if not then just stop talking to her. Plus if you go sexual, if/when she breaks up with her bf she will likely be calling you! But you absolutely don't want to be her little play toy. Show her you mean business!!

Author:	Heartnet [ Mon Dec 31, 2012 12:43 am ]
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right on

Author:	puaninja [ Mon Dec 31, 2012 1:00 pm ]
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What you guys never seem to realize is that the night before she agreed to "hang out" with you, she had a long argumentative discussion with her borefriend about how he doesn't treat her right and how he is going to lose her if he doesn't clean up his act. At this point he already halfway out the door, but since he was previously her boyfriend, and since she hasn't told you that they are completely broken up yet, you just assume they are still together like normal. That's why I don't have any issue with messing with girls with bf's or stealing them away from their bf's. Because it is very common for women to transition from one boyfriend to another by losing interest in one while gaining interest in the next. I call it the "phase out". Whenever your girl starts giving you a bunch of shit, she's beginning to phase you out and will be looking for guys who treat her better or whom she likes more. Then she justifies cheating on you or dumping you by convincing herself that you were just a bad boyfriend and you deserved it.

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Author:	Adrino [ Mon Dec 31, 2012 3:53 pm ]
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Use her for a pivot, it should be perfect

Author:	Mago812 [ Sun Jan 06, 2013 6:50 pm ]
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Quote: What you guys never seem to realize is that the night before she agreed to "hang out" with you, she had a long argumentative discussion with her borefriend about how he doesn't treat her right and how he is going to lose her if he doesn't clean up his act. At this point he already halfway out the door, but since he was previously her boyfriend, and since she hasn't told you that they are completely broken up yet, you just assume they are still together like normal. That's why I don't have any issue with messing with girls with bf's or stealing them away from their bf's. Because it is very common for women to transition from one boyfriend to another by losing interest in one while gaining interest in the next. I call it the "phase out". Whenever your girl starts giving you a bunch of shit, she's beginning to phase you out and will be looking for guys who treat her better or whom she likes more. Then she justifies cheating on you or dumping you by convincing herself that you were just a bad boyfriend and you deserved it. I'm printing this one out. Best use of two paragraphs ever. I would go with the so called S.H.I.T. method (been doing this for some time, but didn't have a name...yet ) Basically, you start hanging out more. She gets used to having you around. Than you take that away from her. She starts "missing" you and wonders what is this feeling. Then she starts chasing you. Quicker way for this would be: 1. Watch a movie. 2. Kino. And touching 3. Go for a kiss until you get it 4. Take it from there.

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