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Author:  BITmixit [ Tue Oct 30, 2012 2:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Approaching and awkwardness problems.

I am the type of guy where if the girl initiates the approach and such then I'm pretty much good to go. However my main problem when gaming is approaching girls I find attractive and getting them comfortable enough to have a good conversation and keeping that conversation going so I can kino and escalate.

Talking to my female friends today about a couple girls I've been seeing recently who are turning out to be a bit mental. She along with other girls have said the usual "I dont understand why you dont have a girlfriend you should go for the nice girls compared to the mental slaggy slutty girls."

I would fucking LOVE to have a relationship with a nice quiet girl compared to some loudmouth slut but its harder for me to build comfort with the nice lovely girls because they always either

A) Don't act interested when I approach.
B) Are too shy/awkward to have a conversation.

How is this fixable/how can I improve the initial game to get these girls talking.

I've also gone down a list of things that I've needed to improve with my life to become more attrative. I have gotten myself into university and doing a good degree to get a good job. I have lost ALOT of weight from school as I was bullied so I got nothing back then. I work out doing pressups, weights and planks to keep myself looking slightly toned, I have a big knob and never selfish in the bedroom department. Infact I fucking love seeing a girl barely able to move after sex.

My one BIG problem is the approach.

Author:  Melodical [ Tue Oct 30, 2012 5:22 pm ]
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You need to set the frame when you approach and just pretend you haven't noticed their reticent nature and keep talking as if they are a lifelong friend. Tyler Durden calls this "barrelling through" and it does work. The shy girl sees it as she has been approached, screened and accepted and eventually a conversation will ensue.

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