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| Author: | yeeaabuddy [ Fri Oct 26, 2012 5:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How To Approach Girls With Your Friend Who Doesn't Do Pickup |
? I go out during the day with one of my best-friends like everyday, and all we do is walk around the mall or other stores. I know he would like to approach girls but he never talks about it and says he already has enough skills with women. I'm still a Newb and get terrified when approaching girls, even if they aren't my type. The only times I can go out and practice are when I am out with him. I just don't want to get rejected in front of him because it would be embarrassing, and he'd probably tell everyone. What should I do if I want to get better at pick up? |
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| Author: | Silvershade [ Fri Oct 26, 2012 6:06 pm ] |
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With that mindset you're bound to get rejected anyways. Don't care about approaching girls, don't care about impressing that friend. Because it seems like you're really trying to impress the guy. Getting rejected is only real rejection if you make it one, it's not like the girls are going to point fingers at you and laugh at the fact that you're trying to pick them up. Even if they do, I doubt your friend could possibly be such an asshole to tell everyone about that big of a rejection. The worst that could happen is that she says that she isn't interested. Unless he never has something better to do, he won't even mention it, who cares that not every single woman wants you. There are plenty that do. And in order those people, you have to approach. And if he thinks that's lame, just tell him it's his turn and ask the 'master' to enlighten you. If he refuses, you can just tell the group he was too scared to try it himself. All you have to do is simply don't give a shit. Go out there and have fun, and your friend will join you, unless he wants to feel like a boring bystander. But honestly I think it's better to try and find time to go alone first, if he doesn't want to go, it's better not to force him because he might as well set you back. Good luck, and have fun! |
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| Author: | JohnnyValentine [ Fri Oct 26, 2012 8:53 pm ] |
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You have to look at what is really holding you back as a person. Tackle them first. If the only issue you have is that you can't talk to women. Awesome. Start with baby steps and you will eventually reach the top. If you have other issues. Tackle them and your confidence will grow. Your buddy is not a buddy if he laughs behind your back. He is a buddy if he helps you with this! |
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