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Author:  Noaz [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 2:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Shy Friends
Hello,
I'm going to a holiday in my country with 2 of my friends for 2 days.
I'm a little shy but I manage to get over it sometimes.
The trouble is that my friends are too shy and when I want to walk up to some girls they are always too afraid. They think that approaching girls in the street is "not normal" and you should do it in bars and clubs...
Is there a way I could lead an approach as a triplet, so that we all make a good, self confident impression?
Any information about this subject would help. Thanks!
Ziv
Author:  puaninja [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 6:08 pm ]
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Yes, it's called day game opening. You open the set yourself and then introduce your wings and bring them in. But they'll need to open their mouths and say words, not just stand there staring awkwardly.
Author:  Silvershade [ Fri Oct 26, 2012 6:39 pm ]
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If they think something like that should only be done in bars and clubs, why don't you take them to one before you attempt day game. That way they shouldn't have excuses.

Although I kind of wonder why so many of you want to bring unwilling friends into it. I usually just tell them to wait a second and talk to a girl for a few seconds, sometimes get a number, then some friends get curious and ask what I do, and it gets kind of annoying since it feels like I have to watch the progress of more than just myself.

But you look a lot more confident when you go alone and talk to a hot girl while your friends are waiting for you. And this would make you get rid of that shyness much faster than feeling secure in a big group, and if you go for one girl, you might intimidate her or have one of your friends end up sabotaging because they don't know anything about game.

Either way, good luck.
Author:  Noaz [ Sat Jun 21, 2014 4:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy Friends
I totally forgot about this thread post! I've decided today to join the forum and get more serious in pick up, but I couldn't register because my email address was in use lol :P

Thank you for the reply, I actually did it a couple of times since, opening up a group and getting my friends in (well, only once it went well). And actually met a girl by going alone(!) to a party and hitting on here which was my girlfriend for a couple of months.

My friends are still stuck in the same problem. But I'm here to continue my improvement in pick up and self confidence.

So hello everyone! My new nickname is Noaz btw and I'm 22 from Israel. Noaz is Hebrew means bold/courageous because that's exactly what I want to become (It's like NLP I think).
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Mon Jun 23, 2014 6:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy Friends
Ditch them for a while and run off by yourself if you wanna get laid.

You're gonna get nowhere, fast if you hang out with guys like that.

Either make new friends or they will figure it out and catch up. If this is something you want to get good at, I'd suggest you stop letting them slow you down.

Life is like an elevator. You gotta stop and let some people off on your way to the top.

Don't worry.... when you're the type of guy who always has girls around, everybody wants to be your fucking friend lol
Author:  Noaz [ Fri Jun 27, 2014 2:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Shy Friends
Haha I liked your reply Majikal :)

I'm not gonna ditch my friends, but I will find more friends who have the same ambitions, who are similar to the developing pua side of me, my alter ego: Noaz.
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