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Author:  Ninja1992 [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 5:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Help me think of a new qualifying opener!

So recently, some barrier in my game has meant that I can't escalate physically like I usually do. I'm more hesistant...it's like I'm going backwards in development...

I was rather direct in my approach with physicality and whatnot (like using friendly KINO off the bat and using my body). I figured that by using a qualifying opener, I can scout for interest from the get-go and escalate physically more easily with interested girls. But more importantly, I'm doing something new so it will help me get instate and happy, like get your heart pumping and whatnot.


So I reckon something like this would be okay...

'Hey. You're pretty cute. I thought I'd come talk to you. How's your night been?'

Or if it's a group, you could say 'You girls are pretty cute. How's your night been?'


Opinions?

Ninja

Author:  puaninja [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 7:07 pm ]
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Personally, not a big fan of telling them they are cute or hot as an opener. A compliment itself is not necessarily bad, but I might embelish it a bit and tell them they are absolutely gorgeous or that they have a radiant energy or something. Or omit the "you're cute" part and just be like "Hi, I'm Robert, how's your night been so far?"

Author:  Ninja1992 [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 8:08 pm ]
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That's what I did before, really I'm just looking for a way to scout out interest whilst opening girls. My old opener was 'Hey, I thought I'd come over and be social, how's your night going?', but the whole 'social' part makes it hard to do that.

I've thought about instead using the same opener and being more seductive with my non-verbal communication; pretty telling them 'I think you're cute' through your body. So openly you're social, but inwardly you're seductive. MIND GAMES BRO.

Or at least using a qualifier later in the conversation, like a minute after :P

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