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| Author: | Wierdo777 [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 8:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Does any 1 else feel like a total wierdo & freak wen Aproach |
I feel like a total wierdo and freak approaching stange women on the street, at the mall and random places that are not a night club or party.... They must be thinking "this guy has no life" "this guy has nothing better to do but try to talk to me" Do u know what i mean? Most people who are content and happy with life have rich social lives, friends, hobbies, girlfriends or whatever. Im just a freak without these things... Can anyone relate? Like today at work, this girl a 6-7 was chatting with the cashier about discounts, he walked away, i told her ill give her a discount if u give me ur number, she looked in2 her cell and said "your funny" I then said "are u brazilian 2?" cus every1 at work mostly is, she said "no..." I said where u from she said "_________" still lookn in her cell phone... spanish girl the chef said "E Z (my name) and i kept wiping trays.... I feel like a total wierdo after that..... Im going 2 go approach more girls later but i just feel unnatural. |
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| Author: | Blues Guy [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 9:19 pm ] |
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Dude, you felt like a weirdo because you WERE being a weirdo. You went up to the girl and asked her for her number before you even knew anything about her. Doesn't matter how good looking or funny you are, you have to talk to her for a few minutes (and something more interesting than, "are you Brazilian?"). There was likely no attraction, even if there was you didn't build comfort, establish rapport or anything. Women want to be approached, and no woman on this planet will disagree with that. If you do a good approach you'll make her day. But this was not a good approach. Work on it. You can do it. You'd be surprised at how happy a woman is that you just go up to her and have an honest conversation. |
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| Author: | mother_fucker_2000 [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 12:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Does any 1 else feel like a total wierdo & freak wen Aproach |
Quote: I feel like a total wierdo and freak approaching stange women on the street Watch the video in my signature, you wont feel like a weirdo anymore.
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| Author: | secretaznman [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 12:26 am ] |
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Haha you my friend are the definition of the AFC. Don't be ashamed, everyone makes mistakes and even the most famous PUAs were probably way worse off than you. If you are absolutely clueless when it comes to women, you need to learn the basics. You need to learn how to think more like an alpha male and start leading a richer life. After that, start learning what attracts women, what turns them away, and how they think. You can do this in a number of ways, but the easiest way is to pick up a few ebooks and reading articles online. Check the link in my sig and check out the "alphas vs betas" article for a first step. Don't get so down on yourself man, people mess up and its all a learning process. You'll get it with time, but the important thing to remember is to not take rejection so harshly. |
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| Author: | clickngo [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 2:44 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Does any 1 else feel like a total wierdo & freak wen Aproach |
Quote: Quote: I feel like a total wierdo and freak approaching stange women on the street Watch the video in my signature, you wont feel like a weirdo anymore.BTW @ OP If you like you're job don't go after girls at you're work place, must guys know this. Only if shes like an 9-10.... |
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| Author: | mother_fucker_2000 [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 3:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Does any 1 else feel like a total wierdo & freak wen Aproach |
Quote: Quote: Quote: I feel like a total wierdo and freak approaching stange women on the street Watch the video in my signature, you wont feel like a weirdo anymore. |
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| Author: | beingattractive [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 4:45 pm ] |
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You probably feel like a weirdo because that was a weird thing to say... don't ever try to bribe a girl for her number, thats lame... its not you, its what you said. |
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| Author: | worldrunner [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 10:23 am ] |
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The two biggest Weirdos that I've ever seen are: Mystery and Ross Jeffries... That does not stop them from approaching and picking up girls. If you do not want to look like a Weirdo and continue approaching, be brutally honest and direct in your approach, just keep in mind that you'll be rejected a lot... You were born as a human, the only way for us to survive as a species is by being social and having sex... So as long as you are not harming others be proud of all your efforts on becoming more social and having sex, it is your duty as human. The world is much bigger than a classroom, the rules of a classroom where everybody makes fun of the weirdo do not apply in the real world... In the real world 90% of the people 90% of the time is just thinking about what others will think about them. In your example instead of thinking: "WTF is wrong with this guy? why is he acting in such a weird way saying those things?" They'll thing something like:"WTF did just happen to me? what did I do? was it my hairstyle that provoked this? My accent? my Luck?" and some minutes later unless they liked you a lot... you'll be completely erased from their thoughts... So stop caring to much of being a weirdo and do your job. |
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| Author: | JohnnyValentine [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 5:58 pm ] |
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You sound like someone who lacks self-confidence. Like most people new to something. Best to start by working on things to build your confidence. Your body language, clothing etc It's amazing how much these things can turn you into a new confident person. It almost feels like 'fake it till you make it' at first. Then it just becomes natural. |
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