What is the best way to seduce a woman you work with?
Normally I don't go after women I work with because of the complications that come with sex in the workplace, but at the company I work for now it's pretty much a sex fest. lol. Everyone hooks up and they all still have their jobs, so I figure it could work for me too.
The other reason is there are no unattractive women in my company. I don't know why. Ok actually I do know why... everyone's in their mid 20's-30's single and most of the upper level managers are male... and it's a marketing firm... so I guess someone thought "hey if you want to sell shit... get a hot babe to sell the shit". So either they are just all desperate afc horn dogs or they are genius marketing strategists. Probably a bit of both.
So I work with this gorgeous puertorican chick. Great ass, big tits, pretty face... To me I'd say she's a solid 9... She's the stereotypical bitchy spoiled brat... you know, the daddy's girl... the preppy cheerleader type... which unfortunately for me I happen to have a seriously unhealthy weakness for... (probably cuz they were the girls I didn't get with in high school and early on in college). I say unfortunately because they really don't make great girlfriends, (kinda abusive... if that's what you're into) but they're great in the sack... and fun when they aren't bitching.
She's the type who wants what she can't have, so I made it clear from the start she can't have me... unless she works for it.
I didn't flirt with her at all even though every other guy in the room hits on her very chance they get. I waited about a week before showing any interest beyond professional and friendly. It worked. I'd been getting IOI's from the start... they got bigger and more obvious the longer I made her wait. I had her one day almost grinding me at work, in the office, while people weren't really paying attention, but yeah... she's always making some excuse to touch me now. Another thing I did was played the jealousy card by hitting on other women at work, at the bar after work, and everywhere every chance I could get in front of her... especially attractive women. I actually managed to get two other chicks really attracted to me, so I have some options now
So the other night I'm at a bar with my co-workers for what we call team night. I had to leave early because I have a long commute out of the city. So I'm pulling out of the parking lot getting ready to drive out into the street when her and two other chicks I work with come out and run in front of my car to block me from entering traffic pissed at me. I didn't know what the hell I did. I just assumed they were drunk. So I rolled down the window and asked them what was wrong. They were mad that I didn't say goodbye to them. Like genuinely offended... it was adorable and I treated it as such.
She was the ring leader of the group, so I know this was her idea... she always is the ring leader. So I have 3 hot drunk chicks stopping traffic and creating drama over my ass and not letting me leave, lecturing me for being rude and not saying bye to them when I wasn't even hanging out with them. lol Anyway about 15 min later they finally let me leave after one of my male co-workers came out and saw what was going on and helped me calm them down and get them back into the bar. (Thank god! Or I never would have been able to leave!) It was a really funny scene...
Anyway, that was when I realized it's time for me to make a move. This girl is creating drama now because of me. She's begging for my cock in every way but words. It's at the point of no return. I know if I don't fuck her now she's going to get bored and move on to someone else, or think I never really was interested in the first place. So It's go time, but I'm lost as to where to go from here... at least how to go about it in a work setting.
The thing that's fucking with me is the fact that I've had work relationships blow up in my face before. I could have banged her that night, but I didn't want to take advantage of her state, but it was also just the fact that I have no idea where to go from here in the context of a work relationship. The last time I went after a woman I worked with was before I knew game and was very afc. I never really learned how to seduce chicks at work, because after that I just avoided it all together, even after learning game.
I have no idea what to do from here. Basically what I want to know is where the hell do I go from here and how do I keep this from blowing up in my face and hurting both of us and our jobs? I know the risk to my career at this company is minimal... I guess I actually am worried about screwing up a professional thing and a friendship. How weird is that? I only ever have this problem when it's someone I'm trying to seduce that I know I'm going to see again and on a regular basis.
So what's the best way for me to take the next step?