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Author:  BeastFromDaEast [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 9:37 pm ]
Post subject:  INtroduced on fb.. then died out .gonna see in person soon
This is our shitty convo.... I know her friend and I asked if she was friendly and the girl said "yea she's friendly you can approach her.. dont be intimidated lol" I said
"not intimidated just dont like wasting time with unfriendly people"
Im not close at all to her firend but the girl says hi all the time when she sees me even if I dont really see her or acknowledge her.

SHould I have her find out if the girl would be interested first? I rather not get blown out in person on campus where Ill see her and everyone else all the time.. I mean Its not a big deal cuz i would be fine. but id rather not.
Quote:
Me
Hey. U look familiar ur at *school*?

Her
Yeah lol

Me
Lol cool. Ur a freshman?

Her
Yuppp

Me
Ah. I'm a sophomore. How do y like it

Her
That's cool.. I really like it so far

Me
Same it's awesome... Do u know it major yet?

Me
Your major *

Me
How's ur schedule??

Me
:?

Me
well ill see you on campus i guess this week
Author:  scratchthat [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 10:41 pm ]
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Hmm, you say it's a shitty convo. Perhaps she's friendly but not interested? When you asked questions, she didn't ask any back. I don't want to be the no-hoper here but if you fear getting blown-out on campus, the messaging here is safer.. and she appears to be pre-occupied or not totally up for it.

I wouldn't rack up several messages for her too (like at the end of the convo). Just send one and no response - leave it and try elsewhere.

Just IMO, of course.
Author:  BeastFromDaEast [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 2:41 am ]
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IDK I hate that try again pua crap. TO me thats not beinga pua thats playing a numbrs game.
Author:  scratchthat [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 7:29 am ]
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I don't have much PUA experience at all. I'm just saying what I think.
Author:  Stark3 [ Wed Sep 19, 2012 6:14 am ]
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Hey Bro,

You need to play more cocky funny in these situations (she cant judge you cause she doesnt know you) you need to make yourself stand out.

Quote:
Me
Hey. U look familiar ur at *school*?

Her
Yeah lol

Me
Lol cool. Ur a freshman?

Her
Yuppp

Me
Ah. I'm a sophomore. How do y like it

Her
That's cool.. I really like it so far

Me
[haha how can you say so easily we barely know eachother]

her
well what do you study then

Me
Why dont you guess

Her
blahblah

me

WHAT? an engineer? well then you look like you study MATH

Etcetc.


[If she doesnt respond you shouldn't either]

Me
Your major *

Me
How's ur schedule??

Me


Me
well ill see you on campus i guess this week


Just let her go if shes being boring. There are still many fish in the ocean

Stark
Author:  BeastFromDaEast [ Wed Sep 19, 2012 6:15 am ]
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How would you play cf here??
Author:  Quiche [ Sat Sep 22, 2012 3:54 pm ]
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* Don't chain questions
Seems your main fault here. Imo it's alright to start off to get the convo going, but if you interrogate her like that she's going to be creeped out.

* Try to spice up the conversation a bit
For example, when she said I really like it here you could've said something like "well wait until you've been here as long as I have!" This will probably catch her attention and she'll ask why?

*Don't message 4 times in a row
Either way it's going to come off DLV. Also please no emoticons. If she doesn't respond then you'll assume she's busy, cause she can't be ignoring some cool dude like yourself. If she is, fuck her (figuratively). Also that ending is incredibly DLV. Don't "guess", especially not after she's been ignoring you like that.

After this I'd just let this one slide for a while on FB/IM, and perhaps even ignore her IRL for a bit as well, then just casually say hi and see where that conversation takes you.

I tend to sometimes reply if she hasn't replied to me yet:
"Seems you're busy, see you around"

If she does respond to this, don't respond, or say something like "Well I gotta go now, later, x", even if you're gonna sit behind your pc the next 5 hours masturbating.
Author:  Phoenix_ [ Sat Sep 22, 2012 5:07 pm ]
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The major thing wrong with this conversation is.... you.. a random person on the internet... just started asking random question. Random, boring, questions. You can't expect her to want to carry on a convo if you don't put some personality!

Ive probably done 20+ facebook openers(this is back in the day), and had 75% success rate at atleast number closing

Example of an opener
Quote:
Me
this is random sorry but you look super familiar, do you go to (school)?

Her
Lol yeah why

ME
Ive seen you in the hall (im not a stalker), you like the color blue right?

Her
Lmao whaaaat? And idk I like pink better..

Me
Dogs or cats?

Her
Ummmm I'd rather have a smalll litttle kittty but then again small little puppys are cute toooo! I'd have cog.

Me
What the hell's a cog?

Her
A cat & a doggg..

Me
Haha weird stuff, last one, ice cream or milkshake?

Her
Icecream!

Me
Sweet, just hit me up and we'll go get some

Her
Hahaha smooooth. That's whatsup.
I actually got that opener from someone in this forum.... the name escapes me now, but the point is PUA openers are actually pretty good. So until you can come up with something on your own, consider using pre-made stuff.
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