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| Author: | wreckingball15 [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 6:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I need help approaching. |
Im 28 most of my friends r single and in their mid 30's. Im the social butterfly of the group but my frie.ds r the type to jus talk amongst themselves about how hot a girl is at the bar w us. I have little luck gaming girls lately bcz of this. Anyone got any pointers how i can gain more attraction being w my friends? |
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| Author: | Loveable Me [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 1:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Get new friends |
I suggest u get new friends which will help u get better at gaming. I think it was style who said that if ur friends are losers than so are u. The people u socialize with represent who u are and were u fit in. I used to hang out with the stoner group and so people automatically assumed I was a bad kid and viewed me as one. So I stoped hanging out with them and found better friends that help me improve as a person. I know getting new friends might not seem like something u want but if u want to improve then u either have to get new friends or set them aside when they don't let u progress. I still talk to some of my old friends to help them out in pickup or anything else but when I see that their in my way I separate myself from them. Hope this helps, it worked for me and it might work for u. |
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| Author: | Loveable Me [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 1:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Get new friends |
I suggest u get new friends which will help u get better at gaming. I think it was style who said that if ur friends are losers than so are u. The people u socialize with represent who u are and were u fit in. I used to hang out with the stoner group and so people automatically assumed I was a bad kid and viewed me as one. So I stoped hanging out with them and found better friends that help me improve as a person. I know getting new friends might not seem like something u want but if u want to improve then u either have to get new friends or set them aside when they don't let u progress. I still talk to some of my old friends to help them out in pickup or anything else but when I see that their in my way I separate myself from them. Hope this helps, it worked for me and it might work for u. |
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| Author: | Sluggler [ Fri Sep 14, 2012 4:04 am ] |
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Ditch the friends with no game. Hanging out with friends with no game only hinders you. You can still hang with them, but not when you plan to pick up girls until you have solid core confidence. Until you have core confidence you will feel the pressure and negative, nervous, scared, fearful emotions of your friends. Remember, energy is contagious, especially for someone with solid core confidence yet. And what i mean by core confidence, is the ability and fearlessness to approach a girl in ANY environment, setting, place and run sold game, no matter who is around. Being rejected is a good thing to you because you know it means you went for it, and went outside your comfort zone. Good luck. Sluggler |
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| Author: | Dellsonic [ Fri Sep 14, 2012 5:24 am ] |
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Quote: Ditch the friends with no game. Hanging out with friends with no game only hinders you. You can still hang with them, but not when you plan to pick up girls until you have solid core confidence. Until you have core confidence you will feel the pressure and negative, nervous, scared, fearful emotions of your friends. Remember, energy is contagious, especially for someone with solid core confidence yet.
that was awesome slugger!... i want solid core confidence.
And what i mean by core confidence, is the ability and fearlessness to approach a girl in ANY environment, setting, place and run sold game, no matter who is around. Being rejected is a good thing to you because you know it means you went for it, and went outside your comfort zone. Good luck. Sluggler |
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| Author: | Sluggler [ Fri Sep 14, 2012 10:28 am ] |
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No problem Bro. Core confidence is not caring what people think or using your situation as a cruch. Act confident in any situation. You know what your best qualities are, you don't need other people to validate they exist. You know your offer value to people. If they don't see it, it's there problem. Be consistent with your core confidence. Don't need people to be around to talk to a girl during the day time. Go into any environment and be who you are meant to be. Don't be that guy who can't be confident or who you are because you are out of "your" environment. Core confidence doesn't come over night, this is one of those things that comes with going out consistently, day and night, and building yourself up to that point. I will be making a blog post on this soon. sluggler |
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