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Author:  UnrealLove [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 6:37 pm ]
Post subject:  NOT GETTING INTO FRIENDZONE

i just started to university and i saw a girl from my highschool,we didnt talk much back then but she was really excited to see me.last night we hanged out with friends,talked a lot,laughed a lot.my humour is really dirty and i make people laugh with that.i did lots of negging,make her qualify for me etc.my question is how can i avoid the friendzone? am i doing things right at the moment? we will party next week together so what do you guys say how should i game her?

Author:  Infiltrator92 [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 4:57 pm ]
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Kino escalation and make a move. If you kino escalate properly and the go to kiss her then it's unlikely she will move away (unless she has a bf already or something). I know you said you knew her at school, but if you're only just getting to know her properly and you make a move then the worst that can happen is that you'll end up in the friendzone. However if you don't make your intentions clear she will quickly think you just want to be friends and then your best outcome is that you stay friends.

To sum up: make your intentions clear to her, kino escalate, and close. Make sure when you're talking to her that you're not chatting about mundane things like a friends would, but that you're actively flirting.

Author:  UnrealLove [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 5:48 pm ]
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thanks alot for the advice man,i want to make my intentions clear but im afraid what if she doesnt think of me that way?what if im already in the friendzone?i will kino escalate man i will be more touchy and when its time to close,i will do my best.i already neg her alot thoug

Author:  redsky [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 6:43 pm ]
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Easy way to get laid (Redsky's System)

-I never chase a girl personally. I enjoy just getting as many digits as I can and only meeting up with the ones who show the most interest.-

Ex: Getting 50 numbers in 1 week by strolling busy streets on my days off and doing a simple little, " Excuse me, You're cute...wanna get coffee sometime?" then pulling my phone out and asking their number. That is, if they decide to say yes.

-I only meet up with the one's that choose to text me the most.-

I never text a girl more than once after I get their number and the text is pretty much a, " Hey this is -Jon doe-. Hope you enjoy your day ;)"

If they text me a, " thanx, you too." Then I still don't push to meet up, most of the time. However if I get another text the next day, after they already texted me the day before. Then I will shoot for meeting up.

I never text them, other than, for acknowledgement or due to a question that they texted me. I use smileys to keep the mood positive but not in excess. I usually use the :) or ;) smileys.

When pushing for the meet up, I usually say something along the lines of, " How bout we meet up this evening at -whatever- street and -whatever- ave at 7.'' If interested then they will most likely be up for it.

After that I meet up with them like a block away from where I live. I'll walk with them and sit somewhere that isn't too crowded. I have a view of the Hudson right by where I live, which helps.

I'll talk with them for 30-45 mins, ask them questions, make statements, etc. I make sure that I'm tapping them lightly a few times, when I talk so that I have their attention and have a start for kino. Get them talking. Try to stay positive. I start out playing around, joking about how funny a movie was. Then I move on to more serious topics like their goals, what they like in a guy, etc.

After that I test for compliance: I get them to stand with me and put my hands out to see if they put theirs on top. If they do then I pull them in and hug them with my hands around them. I will start telling them things like they are cute and lightly caress their face if they are responding favorably. I will get really close to their face til our foreheads touch, while looking in their eyes, but not kiss. I go close and pull back. If they are moving in for a kiss then I will take it but if they don't then I will ask them if they want to kiss me. If they say no then I say 'Mystery's line' "Well I didn't want to kiss you either, I just wanted to see what you'd say."

Usually if I get the kiss on the first meeting then I will either start walking them to my place to fuck on that same meeting or I will wait until the second time we see eachother. I always meet at the same spot even after the first meeting.

If we aren't having sex by the 2nd meeting then I will move on to the next girl to game.

When we get to my place, I put a movie on my computer then start watching it and wait for them to come sit on the bed with me.

After 2 mins or so of watching the movie, I will pull them gently closer and start kissing and making out. Since you already kissed her outside then this shouldn't be a big shock.
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(I do happen to play Classical guitar and I do play it if I see them looking at it intently.--I have banged a few girls immediately after playing a few tunes, once inside my room.-- Playing an instrument decently seems to make some women pretty wet and willing.)
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Also, If I don't get atleast a handjob the first or second meeting then I will no longer give them priority. But I always shoot for sex by feeling on their boobs and fingering them while kissing on my bed.

If they aren't giving me sex by around 20 minutes after being at my place then I will ask for a massage and remove my shirt and have them massage me. If they are not turned on by then. Then I will let them finish and make sure I get a good massage. After that, I will see them out to the street. I don't bother to kiss them goodbye. I usually just say bye and walk back home without looking back.

Most of the time they will text to meet up again and we will finally fuck. If not then they will no longer be a priority and I will focus on the next most interested dame. :wink:

Author:  UnrealLove [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 11:58 pm ]
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redsky thats a fucking good way haha although i dont do much daygame but i could meet with chicks at night and use this.but this doesnt fucking answer my question haha i want to fuck this particular girl,but i would also like to hear your advise on this,what should i do?like today we were at the gym together and we studied together and ate together.i negged alot and made her qualify herself for me.are there any other things you can suggest except kino?i will kino more often after this point.

Author:  redsky [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 12:12 am ]
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redsky thats a fucking good way haha although i dont do much daygame but i could meet with chicks at night and use this.but this doesnt fucking answer my question haha i want to fuck this particular girl,but i would also like to hear your advise on this,what should i do?like today we were at the gym together and we studied together and ate together.i negged alot and made her qualify herself for me.are there any other things you can suggest except kino?i will kino more often after this point.
That method, works at night too. I notice more success on weekend nights than weekdays though.

As for the girl. Just ask her for her number and use the tactics I mentioned in the daygame post. See if she texts you more than once after you already texted her, "Hey it's -whoever-. Hope you enjoy your day ;)"

If she is texting you a lot then she is interested, if not then I wouldn't bother with her.

-Never chase a girl if she isn't attracted to you, it is never gonna lead anywhere.-

It's all a matter of how attracted she is to you. The thing is I don't usually go for girls I see on a regular basis because I consider it like dating women I work with but your call. She might have the same view, even if she finds you attractive. Good luck though.

Author:  UnrealLove [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 3:25 am ]
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thanks for your advice man,but we have been there,sometimes she texts first,sometime i text first.today we have spent the entire day together,studying,having lunch,supper,going to gym then hanging out.mostly we were alone,sometimes her friends came.i negged alot like all the fucking time.although she mentioned me a guy she talked to at her class today was cute.i dont know if im in the fucking friendzone or was trying to make me jealous?i was like "thats cute" etc. what do you think man? like i have a girl who wanted to have lunch with me today and a girl that wants to get fucked,i will get her tomorrow. but i also want to fuck this girl haha,i would like to hear your thoughts on this situation man thanks:)

Author:  redsky [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 4:10 am ]
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thanks for your advice man,but we have been there,sometimes she texts first,sometime i text first.today we have spent the entire day together,studying,having lunch,supper,going to gym then hanging out.mostly we were alone,sometimes her friends came.i negged alot like all the fucking time.although she mentioned me a guy she talked to at her class today was cute.i dont know if im in the fucking friendzone or was trying to make me jealous?i was like "thats cute" etc. what do you think man? like i have a girl who wanted to have lunch with me today and a girl that wants to get fucked,i will get her tomorrow. but i also want to fuck this girl haha,i would like to hear your thoughts on this situation man thanks:)
Ya, well she was probably willing to fuck you in the first place but I think you waited too long. She is probably more comfortable being your friend now but you never know until you try kino and kiss her.

Disregard the comment about her saying the guy in her class was cute, because that doesn't mean jack. For all you know, she might've said that to shit test you and see if you'd get jealous. Women only shit test guys that they are interested in btw.

-Use the test for compliance routine that I put in my getting laid easy instruction post, to kiss her.-

Author:  UnrealLove [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 3:25 pm ]
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naah i knew it was a shit test,i passed it good haha,it was the second time she did something like that,they dont work on me:D thanks for your advice man,we will party together next weekend and at that time i will kino and go for the kiss.until then,i will disappear and make her miss me,is that a good tactic?

Author:  redsky [ Thu Sep 13, 2012 3:35 pm ]
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naah i knew it was a shit test,i passed it good haha,it was the second time she did something like that,they dont work on me:D thanks for your advice man,we will party together next weekend and at that time i will kino and go for the kiss.until then,i will disappear and make her miss me,is that a good tactic?
Ya, I think you're getting it ;)

Author:  UnrealLove [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 3:55 am ]
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so here is a little update: today we went for a night walk and chilled at her room with her friends(at the walk we were alone),i was negging as usual and also did lots of kino when im negging. the only problem is that sometimes she called me "dude" but only like 4 times i think.what you guys think about that? like is she seeing me as her dude? and how did i do like was this a good plan to build some comfort?but i dont want to build too much comfort cuz of the friendzone. what do you guys think?any evaluations or advices and also wtf is the dude thing? thanks guys!

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