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| Author: | Enola_Straight [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 7:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | Picking up an old friend |
I recently go in touch with some of my old friends from highschool, well one of them noticed I was doing this and kind of approached me telling me its been so long blah blah. we were really good friends in highschool and she actually shot me down then when I went for it when I was younger, chubby, ect. anyways I look better than I ever have before, and I have plans to grab lunch after I get out of class tomorrow. I wasn't planning on trying to open her, until I thought about how this can easily just throw me back into the friend zone. So I'm Thinking I should approach strong so she doesn't automatically throw me into the friendzone from the get go. I'm thinking ill hug her and tell her how good she looks (maybe something a little more agressive than just you look great, Maybe Wow, look at you all sexy and together, or maybe thats too strong? Maybe wow you look amazing, still as hot as i remember I'm wondering if i should sit next too her rather than across that way kino might be a little easier. but that might be just be bad in terms of keeping conversation. what do you guys think? any tips? |
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| Author: | Allstar.iboT [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 9:51 am ] |
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As for me bro , id do things casually, grab a cup of coffee , have lunch , etc.. give some flirty moves, be a little bit funny, run some DHV routines.. and give joy to the conversation, i wouldn't court the girl, ill make her court me |
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| Author: | Enola_Straight [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 11:06 am ] |
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Alpha shit right there... I agree with you completely I just feel like I should go in a little hard to shock her out of putting me in a friend zone. since that's where I was the last time we saw each other. If all i do is play it calm, be funny, be interesting and a little flirty thats no different than my demeanor when we were younger and if i still seem the same then shes going to let the cards fall back into the same spot so to speak. Do you agree or no? |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 12:43 pm ] |
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Put yourself in her shoes. She's going to meet an old FRIEND and all of a sudden he starts throwing himself at her, being all aggressive and touchy feely. It's almost like your trying to force an instant attraction on her. I'd say just game her in your normal way, even if its slower. You weren't a pua in highschool so obviously you didn't do the right things or escalate properly back then. You won't make that mistake now because you know what you are doing. But don't force it, unless she starts giving you IOI's right away. |
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| Author: | Allstar.iboT [ Tue Sep 11, 2012 1:02 pm ] |
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i dont think you're gonna end up on the same spot bro.. its different this time, remember , it was her who first opened up to you .. plus.. you did change right?? think of new self now, you have a lot of confidence now ! always think that no one is better than you .. im pretty sure you'll get this one. plus dont get to her too strong, give her mixed signals.. like flirt with her all day, but no kiss at the end, or just a kiss to the forehead or cheek.. yea, sit right next to her rather than across her, for an easier kino .. Peace bro ! |
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