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Author:  JeevesElliot [ Fri Sep 07, 2012 7:00 am ]
Post subject:  How to approach and close the attractive friend in a two set
How do i get the number of a hot babe that has a not so attractive friend with them. Take the mall as the setting. Now its hard for me because i dont want to approach the attractive one directly because it will leave the friend hanging and make myself and herself subconsciously feeling bad about ourselves. I have no intent to get the unattractive ones number just the attractive one. how can i do this without feeling like a dick. I know i should approach indirectly but in the end i will be asking for the attractive ones number. Help a brother out. I also dont like to use a wingman because i feel like they are holding me back because in my head im thinking 2 steps ahead and i am the only one that knows what i am thinking.
Author:  dannypickup1 [ Fri Sep 07, 2012 9:56 am ]
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here is what i would do: open them with an opinion question, and try to ignore the beatiful girl the most and neg her a bit. like geez where is your off button? when she talks or is she always like that? (say it with a smile tho) she'll start asking for attention and thats when you start paying attention to her just give her a simple compliment about her style or something. say you were on your way to a coffee shop or something and ask them to come along. GL
Author:  TrueSeductor [ Fri Sep 07, 2012 1:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to approach and close the attractive friend in a two set
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How do i get the number of a hot babe that has a not so attractive friend with them. Take the mall as the setting. Now its hard for me because i dont want to approach the attractive one directly because it will leave the friend hanging and make myself and herself subconsciously feeling bad about ourselves. I have no intent to get the unattractive ones number just the attractive one. how can i do this without feeling like a dick. I know i should approach indirectly but in the end i will be asking for the attractive ones number. Help a brother out. I also dont like to use a wingman because i feel like they are holding me back because in my head im thinking 2 steps ahead and i am the only one that knows what i am thinking.
I agree with Danny, except I would not use such harsh negs like "where is your off button" early in the conversation because you will come off as an asshole. Also remember that any negs should be said in a very playful tone. Come in and just keep your focus on the girl that is not your target, point your body away from her. Slowly start turning your body toward the target and run through a cycle of comfort, break rapport , qualify and reward with the target. Also employ kino in this cycle.

So lets use an example, after having a decent conversation with both girls but mainly focusing on the girl that is not your target, starting to turn your body toward the target. Proceed to ask her something that creates a commonality like "what type of movies are your favorite?" Lets say she answers horror movies, now you break rapport (notice how its break rapport not neg, its lighter than a neg), so you say back " NO WAY, your lying I love horror movies , I bet when a horror movie comes on you hide under your blankets and cover your eyes!" ( in a playful tone). She will retort with "No I really love horror movies!" Now qualify her (verify the truth of her statement) you ask " Ok if thats really true what is your favorite horror movie?" She answers " house of 1000 corpses" "Friday the 13th" or some other movie. You say " Wow that is awesome!, High five!" Now high five her, you now have created kino ( the high five) so touching her later wont be awkward. You also have created a commonality with her and broken rapport ( equivalent of the effect of a neg). She is now into you and will push her friend away to talk to you. You can also repeat this cycle throughout any conversation to create attraction.
Author:  Paul_T [ Sat Sep 08, 2012 3:45 pm ]
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I actually disagree with both the guys above.

I've never seen indirect game work during the day in a mall or street. I would go direct, stop them and tell them they are both lovely, but I thought your friend was really stunning (said to the less attractive girl).

Then have a normal conversation with both of them, but aim more attention at the one you are interested in, and give her more direct compliments. Tease and have fun if you want, but there is no need for negs. You get attraction from the massive confidence you have shown by grabbing your nuts and going direct (erm... don't actually grab your nuts, that'd be weird...)

At the end, say "I'd love to take you out for a glass of something delicious sometime", and get her number. Or go straight to a coffee shop for frappachinos.
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