I’ve recently been testing a new opener usable over texts or facebook. It works with people you haven’t seen in 5 days or more. It might also work as a bar/daygame opener.
Feel free to add thoughts, or try it and send me feedback. After all
"feedback is the breakfast of champions" - masterclass
But it goes something like this:
The opener: Were you at the (invent a place you are certain she haven’t been to) at (invent a time/day/week where you are sure she wasn’t at the previous mentioned place)? Then as she answers, be sure to neg her for something she DIDN'T do!
I only had the opportunity to test it three times, thou it seems to work wonders, as long as you make sure it’s a place she never been!
The three times looked something like this:
This conversation is with a random girl I met at a metal concert before I started “gaming”
Me: Were you at xxx today?
Her: no… why?
Me: Saw a person that looked like you, and just wanted to say that the dress where a little unlucky.
Her: hehe (opening up already) okay but I didn’t take the train and I didn’t wear a dress today
Me: Well. Okay : / …
Her: How did the dress look?
Me: The typical grandmother. White with flowers
Her: Haha!
After this the conversation went really well. She gave lots of IOI’s and positive language. Unfortunately I was a bit to edgy, and pissed her off. My mistake : (
The next one was the perfect example of why you should make sure she wasn’t at the location at the mentioned period of time. What basically happened was that she thought I dissed her dress, and went cold right away, without asking for details. Boy I was sure to close that one quickly. No need to screw it more up.
The last one went good, and ended up with a nice projection of me and her having doppelgangers.
Me: Hey. Were you at xxxx today?
Her: no
Me: Well okay. Then it was someone who looked like you. Just wanted to say that the dress you wore were a bit unlucky.
Her: hahahah !! what dress??
Me: White with flowers. The typical grandmother
Her: puha! (Danish word, kinda like shit) no, I would NEVER wear that ^^.
Me: Haha. Tell your doppelganger to drop that style!
After that she opened up easily and we’re having coffee at a time currently unknown. Yup. That’s basically my goal with gaming. Getting as much free coffee as possible. Thou sex is quite good as a replacement ;P
Please send any critique you have!