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Author:  Killa [ Tue Sep 04, 2012 12:37 am ]
Post subject:  DAMMIT :(

I work in a grocery store... I know lame... but I'm 19, I actually get good benefits from there, and the pay isn't that bad considering I've been there over three years now.

Today I was walking down the aisle and got such an obvious IOI from a girl that was GORGEOUS and I froze up and just passed her... part of the reason for this is because I feel really dorky in the uniform.

But anyway, any ideas for how to handle a situation like this if it happens again? Openers? Negs? Anything... I'm so mad at myself.

Author:  Killa [ Tue Sep 04, 2012 12:45 am ]
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Actually... now that I think of it... I didn't freeze up... but I held eye contact and smiled. She quickly looked away, but then looked back and held eye contact for a bit. I think she was shy or something.

For me, I think even this was a step, because I'm still new to this, so I'm not that mad... but still... any comments appreciated.

Author:  ClassicWiseguy [ Tue Sep 04, 2012 5:44 pm ]
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Thats an easy one...You work there, just simply ask "Hey! How can I help you?"

Instant conversation starter.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Sep 04, 2012 5:50 pm ]
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Quote:
Thats an easy one...You work there, just simply ask "Hey! How can I help you?"

Instant conversation starter.
Perfect!

Author:  Fluffs [ Tue Sep 04, 2012 7:40 pm ]
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If you feel dorky, just embrace it, have fun feeling ANYWAY life puts you.
I'm doing that right now, at school.
Also, you can try writing down what you think what holds you back from acting and rethink those thoughts till they crack.

Author:  Sluggler [ Tue Sep 04, 2012 10:16 pm ]
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Quote:
Thats an easy one...You work there, just simply ask "Hey! How can I help you?"

Instant conversation starter.
Yep. Super Easy.

Author:  carlito_xb [ Fri Sep 07, 2012 5:42 am ]
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open up with statements is much more playfull then questions
15 approaches two numbers closed with this ''interview'' routine

me:u sport alot huh :)
HB:not realy,why :)
me:u have this fresh,sporty,healthy look about u,do u eat lots of fruit and vegetables?
hb:hahaha not more then any one else i think :)
me:then u must have it naturaly i gues :)
hb:hahaha i think so
me:what do u do for a living?
hb:im still a student studying history,i wanna be a history teacher
me:and when u got a day off u probaly go shopping all the time :)
hb:haha im not realy in to shopping like most girls are,maybe once a month or so
me:what do u like to do in ur sparetime?
hb:i dont have much sparetime cause i work part time besides my study,but mostly just hangin with friends or going to the movies
me:cause i bet u will like to have drink with me when u got a day off in the weekend :)
hb:why not
me:whats ur number?
hb:00xxxxxxxx
me:ur not working like every weekend dont u ..(while she type in number)
hb:no im not hahaha
me:alright i will give u call soon,dont go flirting with other guys aight :)
hb:hahaha i wont :)

really simply handeld,but dont go think that every girl will go for this,every women is different just approach enough and keep things memorized and simple,not everybodys brain is like a computer with 8gb ram u know

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