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So i stop being a pussy and catch her after class (after slipping away from friends). Shes happy to see me. My opener is as good as it gets.
Me:"Hi"
Her: Hi (Smiles)
blah blah blah
blah blah
Blah blah
lead her to lib tell her to come with me she does
Me: You have an expressive face -
Her: Thank You - some how she thinks its a compliment and i follow it with
You make these faces ..
Her: Giggle
(all i can remember we only talked for a few mins)
i hafta goooo my class is starting so we end after a few mins of convo -
I see her an hour later. Shes sitting i m with a friend she sees me, Smiles - i walk over to her - my "friend" not really a friend just met him few days ago hes nice tho come back to talk to target after i open her and am Sitting with her- mat comes (hes also knows us all we are all classmates I know mat well)
while Friend A tries to run game while i sit back and watch for a min - he doesnt have anything - so i take back control they leave
Me: They are like a couple - they fight all the time
(its funny cuz they just had a lil argument b4 they left)
Her: Giggles
Me: they are nice tho blah blah i say a few good things about em since i dont wana badmouth anybody its bad (it seems jealous)
(I m thinking bout venue chnage so i ask how long b4 next class) She doesnt have time so i look at my cell which is an 70 mins head). She laughs at it.
ME: The reason its 70 mins ahead cuz never changed after day light -- and 10 mins cuz i m always late everywhere (Giggle) everywhere i go. So to be on time i moved it 10 mins ahead.(Its absolutely True)
Me: let me see ur timetable
Snatch away from her hands in a playful way she finds it amusing.
ME: Hmmm we have 4 classes together. Wer gon be seeing each other so much, i m gonna go crazy. THIS IS NOT GOING TO WORK OUT.
Her: it will work out (slips out... oops she didnt just say that she just realized what she said)
Me: Yea i gotta change my timetable blah blah
Her: No WHy? Dont change it
Change topic ..
Me: blah blah --
Her: giggles
Me: Les move from here - i say it smells (she giggles)
after we get up, as i try to take her upstairs she says her class is the other way so she cant go there --with a sad face and she had a few mins left so i say i ll see you tomorrow - High five
there was more but this is all i can remember
Highlights of conversation with HB8.5-
Me: Blah blah
Hb8.5: giggle giggle
ME: blah blah
HB8.5: giggle
Me: Blah blah -
HB8.5: doggy bowl look
ME: blah blah -
HB8.5: giggle giggle
and many more giggles. Infact all she did was giggle after everything i said. Play with hair - and ask me few non-sense questions that were obviously attraction based.
So i feel amazing today. As i will see her tomorrow and have plans
I was having problems with approaching so i was trying new things past few days, and each of these mentioned below helped me get there - i was always afraid of approaching even though my interaction with women would go well. Now i have this feeling like i can approach anyone (ofcourse not anyone)
Highlights of things I did that helped:
Being Honest - Dont lie to yourself saying your gonna do it while deep in your heart ur still scared. If your scared its fine - deal with being scared instead of lying to yourself.
Self Reliance: believing some1 else was going to come along and help me with all this. I am in this alone and only me with take me to places, and inside a women's vagina.
Fear of rejection: Realizing there are no routines that will help you get a girl without her knowing you want her. As i was reading last nite Style's diary he said - (He offered girl to take her home to show her something she agreed - She knew wat she agreed to. Girls are not stupid).
Girls are not stupid no matter what magical routine you try. They will know you want her -- eventually.
Abandoning Pick-up material: Its more harmful sometimes then helpful, if ur in your brain trying to figure out what opener to use, its obviously not helping. Abandoning everything and saying Hi is a good start. Dont think Just do it.
Thinking about what to say after the opener: this is the worst, while you have your inner talk you fuk yourself up and freeze, thinking wat if it doesnt work. Go say hi - blah blah - your senses are hightened (that means you will prob think better (sometimes worse depending how u use that energy) think wat to say after.
Eject: Some people dont realize you can eject after a minute or two if it doesnt work out - in fact u can reject after 30 seconds. Girls dont judge, they will prob think about you as confident - most guys dont even approach. Its not a Number of Rejection - sometimes you get friends or just eject no worries.
Nervousness: just cuz ur voice is shaky a bit in the beginning dont mean she thinks ur a loser - in fact if you keep talking it will become better and better - the more girls u talk to the more confident u will become.
In essence, its more about confidence than any opener you may use or routine. I number closed with any routine or opener. If i can do it -- You can too. I am going to be working on my confidence now rather than learning new routines. Routines are poison at times. Become confident first - talk to a few girls then implement routines into ur game. One at a time. If you try to run 10 routines in a conversation. You will come off as incongruent.
I m not a Guru i m not a Master, infact i am a chump. But even a chump can recognize patterns. I recognized these patterns. and I believe they worked for me. Hopefully they will work for you too. Maybe you are the type of person who can get a routine and open 10 sets a day I am not, or not capable enuff yet so i m going to take it ez. Every student has a different way of learning. So no Disrespect to anyone. I only mean good.