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Author:  Xilixion [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 9:52 am ]
Post subject:  Good openers for college girls?
Ok so I attend ASU which is riddled with incredibly attractive females. My problem is either approaching a girl walking around (maybe to a next class) or a couple gorgeous girls walking together or standing around. I can't seem to find the words to attract their attention or create some sort of conversation. Today I almost stopped one that walked by me and say, "I'd hate myself forever if I didn't at least ask your name." but pussied out at the last minute. Anybody have a good idea for an opener on a smart, attractive girl?
Author:  Synth. [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 11:23 am ]
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ok well gaming a moving target in college is hard, as they probally are on the way to a class so you cant exactly stop them and start a convo, and you cant follow them because you look like a creep!

You have to try approach stationary targets, use an opinion opener!
Neg and game your target!
Get in a 1 on 1 convo
Neg some more
A nice question is "so what do you study here?"
she will say "i study X"
then just say "thats kinda boring, you should quit and become a stripper"
smile and see what her response is, it should be playful,
then just say "ah no thats pretty cool, do you enjoy it"
Thats my favourite line for college students!

Hope this helped you!

Synth.
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 11:31 am ]
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hi

if she says hi back, you hold eye contact and say

what's up today?

and stop moving

then you talk,

rinse and repeat until your grow a pair of nuts big enough to tell her you find her physically attractive and are daring enough to flirt

attractive and unattractive girls give little difference, that difference is in your head

attractive = you care and it makes you a pussy
un-attractive = you don't care but you don't want to talk to them

just don't put pressure on yourself to fuck, when you can't even talk, baby steps, talk 1st, fuck 2nd, work on actually opening lots of girls, instead of only 1, the more approaches you do in the day, the more they get progressively easy to do that day, by the end of the day you will be talking to everyone that passes if you want, with little effort or thought, because you realize there is nothing bad that will happen

keep practising you'll get it

GOOD LUCK
Author:  Xilixion [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 11:32 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
ok well gaming a moving target in college is hard, as they probally are on the way to a class so you cant exactly stop them and start a convo, and you cant follow them because you look like a creep!

You have to try approach stationary targets, use an opinion opener!
Neg and game your target!
Get in a 1 on 1 convo
Neg some more
A nice question is "so what do you study here?"
she will say "i study X"
then just say "thats kinda boring, you should quit and become a stripper"
smile and see what her response is, it should be playful,
then just say "ah no thats pretty cool, do you enjoy it"
Thats my favourite line for college students!

Hope this helped you!

Synth.
What kind of opinion opener are you talking about? Details, man!
Author:  Xilixion [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 11:34 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
hi

if she says hi back, you hold eye contact and say

what's up today?

and stop moving

then you talk,

rinse and repeat until your grow a pair of nuts big enough to tell her you find her physically attractive and are daring enough to flirt

GOOD LUCK
Seriously, you mean just to walk up to her and say I think she's cute?
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Aug 25, 2012 11:36 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Quote:
hi

if she says hi back, you hold eye contact and say

what's up today?

and stop moving

then you talk,

rinse and repeat until your grow a pair of nuts big enough to tell her you find her physically attractive and are daring enough to flirt

GOOD LUCK
Seriously, you mean just to walk up to her and say I think she's cute?
edited my post for more details, and yes, that is a solid opener

you stop her, say hey, I know this is random, but you're really cute, I want to talk to you

then you talk to her
Author:  Synth. [ Sun Aug 26, 2012 12:04 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:

What kind of opinion opener are you talking about? Details, man!
Any Opinion opener man, seriously if you dont know what an opinion opener is, or don't know any opinion openers then you have got to look over some material or make your own!

Opinion opener: Is when you ask for a female perspective on something and ask a question thats serious or witty and induces a response as they have to give there opinion. An example that I use would be the jealous girlfriend opener by style. When you use the opener you open the whole group, not just your target, that's key because then your just a friendly guy not a creep hitting on there friend!! look up some more openers in the "openers" section of this forum!

Another good method is if you approach prime and get IOI's before you head over, you directly approach your target and say "hey, how have you been?" this is Gamblers technique, it basically gives the impression that you know each other already and her friends won't try cock block you! but you have to say those words exactly and be confident!

Synth.
Author:  Oatep1970 [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 10:04 am ]
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Nice post i will try some of this tips
Author:  The Mountain [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 12:10 pm ]
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out of my experience, the best place to start a convo with a women is in the college room while the teacher is giving a lecture. Tried it a couple of times past year and number closed a few women like that and I had lots of fun conversations. Only downside was that I also failed most of my classes, so know the risks if you do it.

Just say something like: Wtf did he just say, dont understand it. She answers, you neg/tease and start a convo. isnt hard at all.
Author:  Xilixion [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 6:56 pm ]
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Well I'm on my way to class now so I'll try to talk to a couple girls. Wish me luck brothers.
Author:  PlayHer Man [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 2:15 am ]
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Unless the campus is crazy big, you will likely run into girls more than once. I think asking for directions is a good opener for the first semester. If you're not new to the campus, I would suggest approaching her to tell her about a big party.

More tips:

http://romancecheater.com/how-to-pick-u ... n-college/
Author:  Xilixion [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 2:54 am ]
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So I went up to a chick sitting at a table outside of a classroom today (I was waiting for my class) and this is how it went (note that I'm taking baby steps, getting over AA, so my goal was to talk and if something happens then so be it):

Me: hey, are you shy?
HB: Why?
Me: Cuz I've been sitting over there for 5 minutes and you haven't come over and said hi
HB: well I usually keep to myself and don't say hi to everyone I see
Me: so what're you majoring in?
HB: dual majoring in accounting and computer science. What about you?
Me: Computer Information Systems
HB: Oh, CIS, I was gonna do that blah blah blah

We talked about how she's waiting for her class, asked what I was waiting for, etc. didn't really talk about too much, didn't neg or anything, it was all about just approaching for me. She ended up putting her hand out, gave me her name and asked for mine.
Author:  Synth. [ Thu Aug 30, 2012 11:37 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
So I went up to a chick sitting at a table outside of a classroom today (I was waiting for my class) and this is how it went (note that I'm taking baby steps, getting over AA, so my goal was to talk and if something happens then so be it):

Me: hey, are you shy?
HB: Why?
Me: Cuz I've been sitting over there for 5 minutes and you haven't come over and said hi
HB: well I usually keep to myself and don't say hi to everyone I see
Me: so what're you majoring in?
HB: dual majoring in accounting and computer science. What about you?
Me: Computer Information Systems
HB: Oh, CIS, I was gonna do that blah blah blah

We talked about how she's waiting for her class, asked what I was waiting for, etc. didn't really talk about too much, didn't neg or anything, it was all about just approaching for me. She ended up putting her hand out, gave me her name and asked for mine.
It's a start buddy! good job! next, you have to neg her and tell her (after you game her a little) that ye should definitely head to a club together, and to introduce to her to her friends, its the polite thing to do!, then ask for her number and if all goes well, you will get it!!
Author:  Photek [ Fri Aug 31, 2012 7:12 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Quote:
ok well gaming a moving target in college is hard, as they probally are on the way to a class so you cant exactly stop them and start a convo, and you cant follow them because you look like a creep!

You have to try approach stationary targets, use an opinion opener!
Neg and game your target!
Get in a 1 on 1 convo
Neg some more
A nice question is "so what do you study here?"
she will say "i study X"
then just say "thats kinda boring, you should quit and become a stripper"
smile and see what her response is, it should be playful,
then just say "ah no thats pretty cool, do you enjoy it"
Thats my favourite line for college students!

Hope this helped you!

Synth.
What kind of opinion opener are you talking about? Details, man!
You simply ask her opinion on something, it doesn't really matter what you ask because from the moment you asked until she responds you have to think about what you will say and once she answered you will have one or more conversational threads to go on from there ;)
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