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| Author: | kingk12 [ Sun Aug 12, 2012 8:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Im scared of IOI's... |
went clubbing last night. went to get drinks and saw hb 6/7 giving me eye contact n smiling shyly and I PRETENDED TO NOT NOTICE IT. for some reason i get freaked out by IOI's. maybe my mind isnt used to the new sexualized me where i can recognise these signs girls display? i literally blew my chances because of this. has this happened to anyone else? |
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| Author: | myth00 [ Sun Aug 12, 2012 11:45 pm ] |
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No doubt. Story of my life. |
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| Author: | getwit [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 3:05 am ] |
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I used to be the same way. For YEARS. You need to make eye contact back. Don't even worry about approaching yet. Make a habit of trying to attain eye contact with every attractive girl you see. No matter how bad you want to look down, hold it for at least 3 seconds. Once you've mastered this, you can tackle the approach. If you don't make eye contact, you will get eaten alive in a club. Practice works, trust me. |
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| Author: | JacquesMaurice [ Mon Aug 13, 2012 9:22 pm ] |
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still get this to this day! Instead of things getting easier it seems like with every IOI I receive in an interaction the pressure builds. She will stroke her hair or itch her wrists and doggy dinner bowl me and my mind is going "woah this shit is getting real and it is actually happening". Mostly it works out but sometimes it has put me off course and I've lost the frame. I think it is a sign that our inner games still need work. |
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| Author: | Sluggler [ Tue Aug 14, 2012 4:53 pm ] |
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This is a inner game issue. IOI's is what most guys in the game look for when interacting with a women. Her giving you IOI's maybe giving you a connection to the old you and your mental image of how wrong the interaction can go. It also is a confidence thing also. By not advancing based on her IOI's you are showing her you are not good enough or man enough to lead the interaction or her. Don't let IOI's have a bad connection with your past. Think of it as a new opportunity to meet a young lady. Just act. If you are getting IOI's that means most of the work is already done, its up to you to now lead. Good luck. Work on your inner game and confidence. Lifes to short to be afraid of a women showing her interest in you. Sluggler |
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| Author: | C1PH3R [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 2:07 am ] |
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I love the smell of IOI's in the morning. Makes me feel like victory! I agree with Slug, work up your confidence and get your inner game straight. There are lots of videos on the subject on Youtube. Believe me or not, flirting with women is awesome. |
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| Author: | skillmatiic [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 2:19 am ] |
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Yeah the more your experience and confidence grows the more you will see IOI's. It becomes like another sense. |
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| Author: | Pudge26 [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 6:49 am ] |
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Your inner game is very bad you need to work on your inner self before you learn outer game and other pua techinques and stuff watch real social dynamics blue print purchase it .. it will be worth every opinion its a video series from tyler durden and it literally changed my life.. i owe all my progress in pick up and with success in social relationships to real social dynamics blue print videos if u dont wanna buy it just go on thepiratebay.org and get it from there but honestly if u got money just buy it the man deserves it its LIFE CHANGING STUFF if u ignore this message then suks to be you dude you pretended not to notice a hot girl giving u good indications that she wants to talk to you.. you obviously have issues going on that need to be fixed.. its okay tho everyone has there problems |
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| Author: | Pudge26 [ Sat Aug 18, 2012 6:50 am ] |
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Your inner game is very bad you need to work on your inner self before you learn outer game and other pua techinques and stuff watch real social dynamics blue print purchase it .. it will be worth every opinion its a video series from tyler durden and it literally changed my life.. i owe all my progress in pick up and with success in social relationships to real social dynamics blue print videos if u dont wanna buy it just go on thepiratebay.org and get it from there but honestly if u got money just buy it the man deserves it its LIFE CHANGING STUFF if u ignore this message then suks to be you dude you pretended not to notice a hot girl giving u good indications that she wants to talk to you.. you obviously have issues going on that need to be fixed.. its okay tho everyone has there problems |
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