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| Author: | Sluggler [ Wed Aug 08, 2012 6:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Transitioning: Context, Work, Liesure |
So today i wrote a post on some things i noticed about MOST of my interaction during day game with women. I will post it on the forum so the mods wont think i am trying to advertise something. Here is the link to the post on my blog: http://theattractiveu.com/transitioning ... sure-work/ Transitioning:Context, work, liesure So the other day i noticed something after thinking about all of the approaches i have made in the past and i noticed 3 things that MAJORITY of my interactions with women included. Those three things are: •Context •Liesure •Work Context The context of the situation is discussing the current situation you are meeting her in. For example, what she is up to when you guys meet? Maybe she is on her way to work, or some where else. Talking about the context of the interaction gives a great opportunity of talking about something interesting.(interesting to both parties). Maybe she is a model on her way to a model class or photo shoot, or on her way to a place she is excited about or looking forward too. It could be something like she is shopping for groceries. Whether it is uninteresting 0r not discussing the context is a good way to break the social ice, and show your social intelligence. You could aslo talk about where she is from, or you. This can be interesting if she is new to town, or you are. If it you guys are from the same place this could be a deadend conversation. People are most interested in talking about new things. Context itself doenst usually generate attraction unless it leads to a more interesting topic(sometimes it will). I’ve always noticed this to break the social ****Side Note: Always ask questions or make statements that lead to something. Never ask dead ended questions with no purpose. This will help you avoid awkward pauses. Always know your OWN answer to your questions.*** Work A lot of people say it isnt good to talk about work when talking to women, but during day game there is an exception. If you make many approaches you will begin to see a patern of how interactions go. Work may be a good topic to bring up because it can allow you both to discuss your passions and leanr more about each other. If you notice that this doesnt seem like a good topic to continue with then change to liesure which i will discuss below. Talking about work gives you a good chance to see how a womens life relates to yours. If she says she is an apiring nurse, you may have a business that helps nurses find employment. See what i mean? It gives an avenue for rapport building and social value by knowing about her career or maybe having friends in the same field you can relate too. Work isnt a GO TO topic but definitely doesnt hurt to discuss and more than 9 times out of 10 work will come up during an interaction during day game. Leisure If you dont connect through work or you notice it can be a dead end conversation change up to leisure. This is usually what either of you do for fun or in your spare time. This is a GREAT transitioner and more than likely she will state something she does in her spare time that you can relate to. If you just ask “so what do you do for fun?” She may not know what you are looking for her to say so try to guide her by saying, For example, “So i mean, you the party girl type, do you go out a lot, or the stay at home and read type?” You can even try a cold read. i do this alot by saying. “So i mean are you the party animal type? Because you seem more of the chill type. Maybe stay at home and read and do constructive things on a friday night”. This more than likely will lead to a interesting conversation and can build attraction, social value, and allow you both to get to know each other within a few minutes. I’ve experimented and noticed that when following the same order above with these fields it allows for a progression, with each topic being more intimate. These fields dont usually trigger any attraction switches AUTOMATICALLY but they due help guide the interaction that way. You will also notice that if you are in a rush or want to do what i call a “Quick close” you can easily go through these fields and get the number and get out. Of course it will lower your risk of actually seeing the girl again but more than likely you will. Just look your best to generate physical attraction, it definitely helps in “Quick closes”. These are just some things ive analyzed over the past week. I also read about these topics in a book a while back and never realized i was actually doing them. Sluggler |
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