Quote: Last few days I was trying to opening with new girls. As here no bar or club for meet with new girls here, I find out a different way to find places where I can use my opening. Today i was going to my sister home, from dhanmondi to uttara. It’s a long way to go (maybe for traffic).
As I looking for bus to go there, I find out a HB7 was waiting for bus too.
I start with this.
Me: “today is really difficult to find a transport”
She : no reply. (Tense face)
Then, I said,
Me : is there any other bus-stop, where I can find bus to go uttara?.
She: i am also waiting for same route transport.
Now, I couldn’t continue talking . I stuck.
What should I say after opening? Any advice?
it's actually pretty easy to think of stuff to say from here. your problem was that you were in your own head and worried about picking her up. if you didn't like her what would you say to her? would you just talk about that place that you were going to? where she's coming from? what about something random like the people around you?
example: "well, please don't stalk me on this bus. i already had a restraining order from my last girlfriend" "who are you btw? i'm blah, blah,. Last time i was on a long bus ride the person next to me didn't shower. I hope you have good hygiene (in a playful joking way, not insultingly)"
I could go on like that because what i'm saying is not as important as what i'm doing in the meantime. KINO. I'm shaking her hand trying to hug her whenever i get a smile or positive response. i'll play a game with her (maybe even thumb wars) just to get an excuse for us to be touching.
hope that gets you started. don't forget to calibrate. gauge when your advances are being accepted or not.
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