Hey guys, its Jay_Swagga12 posting about a pretty good indirect opener tip.

I prefer Indirect openers for a lot of reasons. Mainly, because I can connect with her and she knows im not there to try to pick her up. But sometimes it could be a waste of time, because she has a bf or shes a lesbian.

Now I prefer IOs that relate to me and my life instead of using scripted ones. Example being, my ex-girlriend kissed my bestfriend, now my friend was surprised by it, so of course I was mad at her, we broke up over it, but Im friends with all my exs... so I'll approach a HB and say,"Hey, quick question... do you think you should be friends with your ex, and Ill tell you why im asking in a second....". I've used this opener a lot recently and have been able to transition very well.

So, in my opinion, using an indirect opener closer to you and your life, helps you in 2 main reasons:
1. Your not making up a story!
2. Your not scrambling for words (as much as if you used a scripted)!

So next time you approach a girl, think of something that can be interesting, yet more related to your life, ad see how it plays out!