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I found my muse to my approach anxiety
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Author:  darkslayer [ Fri Jul 20, 2012 4:36 am ]
Post subject:  I found my muse to my approach anxiety
I realized my approach anxiety comes from what to say at first. I understand the routines and techniques to get me in the friend zone hahahaha jk. I started studying and making up my own stories that an average person would be interested in hearing and laugh about or even think to themselves wow thats crazy well I think....blah blah blah. What do you guys think is a 2 to 3 minute explanation of a story to long I'm not stacking. After I get somewhat of an answer I start asking them who they are and introducing myself does that sound alright?
Author:  newpua2012 [ Fri Jul 20, 2012 5:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I found my muse to my approach anxiety
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I realized my approach anxiety comes from what to say at first. I understand the routines and techniques to get me in the friend zone hahahaha jk. I started studying and making up my own stories that an average person would be interested in hearing and laugh about or even think to themselves wow thats crazy well I think....blah blah blah. What do you guys think is a 2 to 3 minute explanation of a story to long I'm not stacking. After I get somewhat of an answer I start asking them who they are and introducing myself does that sound alright?
My heart just beats really fast if I think about approach, but if I just go and do it, not so bad.

I went up to the waittress tonight at the restaurant, she was facing the wall and I wasn't going open her, she was busy anyways. I told my friend I was going to talk to her, which I almost did(found out she was in front of a wall). She was just to busy and to many staff around. It's sad when the women in your group are dull and you approach the waittress insted lol.
Author:  darkslayer [ Fri Jul 20, 2012 6:05 am ]
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I notice when I have a beer and relax in a chair and keep to a calm state I'll look over to a girl and think about it, its like whatever to me and when I stand up my heart start beating fast.
Author:  Sluggler [ Fri Jul 20, 2012 3:31 pm ]
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I notice when I have a beer and relax in a chair and keep to a calm state I'll look over to a girl and think about it, its like whatever to me and when I stand up my heart start beating fast.

Yeah i feel you guys. That is normal, especially when you are pretty new to the game. Since your whole life approaching a girl in public seemed like a impossible situation.
It takes time, and going out making approaches everyday!

You both should set a goal for yourself. "I will approach 10 women everyday until i am comfortable approaching"

Even if it is just going up to a HB or anyone to just ask what the time is, or directions some where. i use to do this when i first got started and it really got me comfortable with approaching a perfectly random stranger.

Don't automatically start out approaching the hottest girl around or in the club, start with maybe a HB7 or around there. if you immediately approach a HB9 or 10 more than likely you will crash and burn from lack of experience. OR you may just get lucky. :lol:

But yeah just start getting out there EVERYDAY hit the malls and start approaching.

Sluggler
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