Work on your inner game. You're not "going out tomorrow to TRY and pick up girls," you ARE going out tomorrow to pick up girls.
"Try" implies failure. Just remember it's a numbers game until your game is like a superpower
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| Author: | AdamJones703 [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 6:37 pm ] |
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Hey guys, first of all - this is my first post so nice to be here! Secondly, to the point, I'm pretty new to the game and am going out tomorrow night (UK) to try to pick up women, which is a first as previous times I've went out and its just happened rather than me actively trying, but I figure that that's not working out so great anymore so I'll try something new haha - I was wondering if anyone could give a total newbie some advice? Particularly with opening, I think this is where I need help the most - I can usually keep a convo flowing, I think Thanks! |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 7:26 pm ] |
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Work on your inner game. You're not "going out tomorrow to TRY and pick up girls," you ARE going out tomorrow to pick up girls. "Try" implies failure. Just remember it's a numbers game until your game is like a superpower
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| Author: | AdamJones703 [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 7:39 pm ] |
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Thanks man, confidence - got it - I AM going out to pick up girls haha. Any tips for opening? |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 8:14 pm ] |
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Opinion opener is best for newbies, "Hi I need a female opinion on something" then ask the question straight after so she hasn't time for an autopilot response. The opinion has to be something that a female is best able to answer that you couldn't ask you buddies. I used to use "Does this shirt go with these trousers?" if she asks why say it's because a fair few women have looked you up and down and you wondered what was going on. This implies preselection. If the girl likes you she will keep the conversation going. |
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| Author: | AdamJones703 [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 8:27 pm ] |
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Perfect man! Thanks again, so indirect openers rather than direct? |
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| Author: | Direction [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 9:17 pm ] |
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I'm fairly new as well. Do you suggest that we start with a time constraint, or do we just get to the question straight up? |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 9:32 pm ] |
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Depends on your confidence level. If you have recieved IOI's then straight over direct within 3 seconds. The opinion opener is an indirect method. I only bother with time constraints if the girl is in a 3 set+ as her friends might not want you there so you need to get under the radar. Don't wait for the perfect moment to approach as you will rationalise yourself out of the approach or as my friend puts it "some other c**t will move in" |
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