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Author:  Ryvan [ Tue Jul 10, 2012 7:45 am ]
Post subject:  help me..the dirty look.

Before you guys start to read my post,pardon my English and grammar mistakes.
There is a retail shop near to my home,i frequently going there for past 1 1/2 months,and most of the worker are girls down there.I always smile at every girl and chit chat..asking sum fun questions ,for example the contact lense they wearing.And everyone treat me the same..and couple of days ago one of the worker(an average one) standing before the shop while i passing the street..and i smiled at her(because i have chit chat with her as well)..and she look at me upside down and gave me a dirty look (bitch!!!)..i just shocked because no one had gave me that kinda look in my life..and i keep wondering did i said something wrong..and nothing comes in my mind..i never flirt at them..just friendly chit chat...and today i went to the same shop and brought something...and had a small chit chat with a girl in the counter and she respond really well..and the bitch standing at another cashier,and by the time i exit from the store giving me the same dirty look again..and i looked back and smiled as confused with her attitude..and let people look at my reaction as well..but i am not totally satisfied..i have some experience with some of the worst and bad responses..but i know the reason for that while this one drawing a huge question mark in my head..can someone help me...thank in advance..

Author:  Rockso [ Tue Jul 10, 2012 3:10 pm ]
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I can't think of anything you did wrong other than make it look like you're a player. If you chat with every girl (Even if you don't flirt) some girls may take it as you being a player or trying to be. Other than that man, nothing comes to mind.

Keep in mind though, seeming like a player also has its positives.
Take care :)

Author:  Justeffy [ Tue Jul 10, 2012 3:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: help me..the dirty look.

I would've said like:
Imma grab a cup of coffee, you wanna come?

Author:  Ryvan [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 2:05 am ]
Post subject:  cool,guys.

hey guys ,thanks for the replies.yea rockso,dude i never had regrets and will not have any in the future as well.I wont worry too much even if i got to know that i have messed up with approach,coz next day my skill sheet will be improved..hahah.but this is just giving me no idea of the situation and whats actually going wrong,and she is the only one acting like a bitch..and i think i should treat her like one..but i gonna do it in a smooth way..heheh....any suggestion on how to react on this situation?thanks in advance guys.

Author:  Melodical [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 5:19 pm ]
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The best reaction is no reaction at all. Act as if it never happened. The girl is trying to set the frame to her reality- she's pissed off and you act accordingly, possibly AFCish.

If you don't react at all and just act as if nothing has or is happening then the frame is yours. People send out "reality pings" like sonar all day long to see how they should react in given situations and then adapt to the strongest frame out there.That should be yours.

Author:  JamesWatson31 [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 6:37 pm ]
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She may like you and is jealous. I have had this happen to me before.

Go and tease her and see what happens.

If she really is a bitch then walk away. There are 3 billion women in the world so who cares?

Author:  themiskini [ Thu Jul 12, 2012 2:57 am ]
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Hey bro, the bitch loook!! It's the best opportunity to approach , u say to them, 'y r girls so cute wen they give u a wtf look.. I'm ____ , how u doin?' ... Another way to look at it is that shes testing u to see if u have the balls to not feel awkward or embarassed, trust me, the face of which u speak, especially from a girl u don't know well u can turn into a fun situation and easily nber close

Author:  Ryvan [ Fri Jul 13, 2012 3:57 am ]
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GUYS..amazing result...i follow the teasing method..and its worked..i went to the shop again and purposely pay at the counter where that bitch is standing..and while i am paying for my things,i gave a obviously same look as she gave me and looked away from her..after a couple of seconds she asked me why i am looking at her like that...then i replied " sorry miss..do i know you"..lol..then she shocked for a sec and replied "ohh..ok..so its like that"..i keep smiling at her.Then i asked her with a bright smiling face as nothing happened " So you just got in"..she replied with a tiny smile " i dont wanna answer you"..then me " looks like u are angry,why?"..and she again with smile.." i dont wanna answer that"..me :"yea i can understand "...till the end of the conversation i maintain charismatic smile and my soul sucking eye contact.lol..and she was also smiling as feeling shy(wow that bitch looks attractive now)..while taking my items i gave a bright smile..and she respond very well for that...and i am off..and while today i am crossing by her shop she smiling at me like a 1000 volt bulb.hahaha.no magic just logic...Thanks you guys..

Author:  themiskini [ Fri Jul 13, 2012 12:57 pm ]
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That's the shit :)

Author:  Melodical [ Fri Jul 13, 2012 3:39 pm ]
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"that bitch?"

Not the cornerstone of a good relationship between the two of you really.
Sounds like you won the frame though bro...well done.

Author:  JamesWatson31 [ Sat Jul 14, 2012 6:11 pm ]
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Look ONLY at her body language and NOT at her eyes or what she says!

This is a classic case of her wanting you. I have had this happen several times to me and honestly thought the girl was being hostile and really was angry. Not true at all.

She likes you.

Take her and fuck her!

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