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Author:  Justeffy [ Thu Jul 05, 2012 9:38 am ]
Post subject:  Girl(s) too sober? Or lacking confidence?

Last night I approached a 2set.
Sat myself down on one of the chairs by their table and said:

Sup girls!
I've got a favour to ask you:
My grandma is visiting this weekend, but she doesn't havr anywere to sleep.
Can she stay at one of your's?

They looked like they didn't know what to say, but they did say:
No, I don't think so.

I said: Really? You've got no empathy for older ppl?

They: No, sorry.
And then they continued speaking with each other.

I said to my friend at the bar: Hey! There you are!
And walked away to him.

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Aftermath

It appeared they were too sober(or lacked confidence) to be playful.

Also, I recall my bodylanguage was a little bit weak.
I leaned in a bit :o stupid...

BUT!!! Even if I would've done everything better, I feel they still wouldn't be happy to talk.

Were they too sober?
Too boring / no confidence?
Or should I have started talking about something else?
Walked away sooner as I found they were in a DoNotApporachState?

They were like a pair of 6es.

Author:  0uch [ Thu Jul 05, 2012 11:11 pm ]
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There could be bunch of reasons.

Do more approaches and see how things work out.

Author:  Sluggler [ Fri Jul 06, 2012 12:10 am ]
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Hmm

Well all girls wont respond the same. Some girls may not think your joke was funny or interesting, or they may not have wanted to be bothered.

Also i think you should be aware of yourself, but don't over think things or try to be "Perfect" just be you while displaying confidence, control, etc. Show you are alpha. Don't put to much thought into one bad approach that went wrong or didnt go as planned, because trust me, if you do this now you will began to struggle with future sets because of the bad approaches that happened in the pass.

So when things like this happens just forget about it and move on. Just know it wasn't you but the girls, they didnt seem interesting enough to talk to in the first place, and probably didn't deserve to be in your presence. That's how you should have thought about it and moved on.

I have sets that go wrong all the time, but i usually keep it moving and spot the next HB and go in! 8)

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