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Author:  Exbar [ Thu Jun 14, 2012 11:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Answer to the question "How are you?"

What's a funny witty answer to te typical question "how are you?" without giving the typical boring answer "good thanks"?

Author:  detox75 [ Fri Jun 15, 2012 12:35 am ]
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"fantastic, its raining diamonds"

Whatever answer you give take the frame. Answering it with a normal reply gives the target the frame.

Author:  Exbar [ Fri Jun 15, 2012 4:18 am ]
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What do you mean by taking the frame?

Author:  detox75 [ Fri Jun 15, 2012 4:27 am ]
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take control of the interaction and lead it

Author:  clearspeak [ Fri Jun 15, 2012 7:08 am ]
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Just one idea is you could always say "Oh, actually I was just thinking about X." And then that gives you free reign to launch into any kind of story you wish. And you can ask things like "Have you ever wondered about X?"

This way you can add some substance, tell some stories, and add some indicators of value in there too.

Of course you should only do this when you're being asked "How are you?" in a situation where a conversation is starting. If you do that when someone is just passing you in the hall and giving a token "How are you?" you'll look a bit strange. :)

Author:  Exbar [ Fri Jun 15, 2012 5:47 pm ]
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Great thanks for the input on here guys.

Exbar.

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