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Author:  zezimaHD [ Wed May 16, 2012 9:38 pm ]
Post subject:  How to respond to IOIs ?

As a college student i have noted many girls giving IOI (fliping their hair in front of me) (repeated looking at me) (standing near me) and i dont know how to react, but i just dont know what to do or say after they show the ioi without looking like a fool...

Author:  Nocretis [ Wed May 16, 2012 10:40 pm ]
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I think that to get comfortable you should start off by using very simple openers like

"Hey hows it going" or "you have that look on your face like your bored"

it honestly doesnt matter what you say because these are signs of a girl showing interest, so all she wants is for you to initiate conversation. Im sure she will carry you the rest of the way

-Nocretis

Author:  Champion_re [ Wed May 16, 2012 11:09 pm ]
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IOI means "I'm interested, please make a move". Chicks can't hit on you since they'd risk being seen as cheap/sluts etc.

So if you get an IOI, go over and say "You look interesting, just wanted to say hello :-)" within 3 seconds.

Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Thu May 17, 2012 12:32 am ]
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It's important to realize throughout most courtship processes a woman makes the first move by sending you attraction clusters, and let you know she is initially physically attracted. The difference between the natural and the everyday regular guy is the Natural notices that attraction and capitalizes. It's an interesting and easy approach to courtship.

Just like the other posters said, a simple "what's up?" will suffice. Just enjoy starting a conversation that may not go anywhere, we all start out somewhere, don't expect that you will ever be able to get every woman and certainly don't expect that you will capitalize on every initial attraction. Keep in mind initial attraction is everywhere and doesn't really mean shit. You can see a girl walking down the street and she maybe initially attracted but may be loyally married to some man. It's natural for her to be physically attracted to another man, that doesn't mean she is going to act on it.

Most of the time with women like that I just make eye contact, smile, and say something like "How's it flowing?" or something basic. I tend to use situational openers http://showyourmind.wordpress.com/2012/ ... fect-open/ based on her body language, the environment, context, but it certainly isn't very difficult to look over at something a woman is holding and ask her about it (like a book since you are at school).

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