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Author:  kingk12 [ Thu May 03, 2012 4:17 pm ]
Post subject:  reluctant number close where did i go wrong
been seeing this hb 7/8 in library at uni for about a week. just been saying hi when i see her and went on one short walk with her. other day i decided to number close her at which point she says she has a bf and then asks me "is this some sorta romantic journey ur expecting". i reply with "remember in primary skl when u could talk to a girl and she didn't shit on you' which i think calmed her down. what the fuck did i do wrong. is it coz i didn't build and rapport and attraction?

I got her number now but i don't even have a reason to ring her and besides she gave it to me reluctantly so there's a huge chance she'll flake on me. how ever after the drama i walked her home and she talked normally to me again with no awkwardness
Author:  JSmooth [ Thu May 03, 2012 6:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: reluctant number close where did i go wrong
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been seeing this hb 7/8 in library at uni for about a week. just been saying hi when i see her and went on one short walk with her. other day i decided to number close her at which point she says she has a bf and then asks me "is this some sorta romantic journey ur expecting". i reply with "remember in primary skl when u could talk to a girl and she didn't shit on you' which i think calmed her down. what the fuck did i do wrong. is it coz i didn't build and rapport and attraction?

I got her number now but i don't even have a reason to ring her and besides she gave it to me reluctantly so there's a huge chance she'll flake on me. how ever after the drama i walked her home and she talked normally to me again with no awkwardness
She has a boyfriend and she just wants to be friends with you. Didn't do anything wrong that's just how it is.
Author:  carlito_xb [ Fri May 04, 2012 6:07 am ]
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try this speed technique

you see this hot girl walking,roll up on her and..

me:hi,can i tell you something real quick
her:yeah
me:i just literaly saw you walking and i just had to say hi,because you are so gorgeous/sexy/stunning
her:oh thank you(smile)
me:you probaly in a hurry huh..
her:yeah kind off
me:yeah me too,so i can't have a real good conversation with you in the middle of the street right now,but never too worry because i always can give you a call(grab your phone out of your pocket),whats your number?......BAM number!
Author:  JSmooth [ Fri May 04, 2012 11:51 am ]
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Quote:
try this speed technique

you see this hot girl walking,roll up on her and..

me:hi,can i tell you something real quick
her:yeah
me:i just literaly saw you walking and i just had to say hi,because you are so gorgeous/sexy/stunning
her:oh thank you(smile)
me:you probaly in a hurry huh..
her:yeah kind off
me:yeah me too,so i can't have a real good conversation with you in the middle of the street right now,but never too worry because i always can give you a call(grab your phone out of your pocket),whats your number?......BAM number!
Assuming all you want is her number. Getting numbers based of attraction alone equals a lot of flakes and don't lead to as many dates as being in set longer and building some common ground.

Case in point you call a girl you did this for. What the hell are you two going to talk about? You don't know anything about her, and she doesn't know anything about you. Thus she may not respond back to you or answer your calls because of the akwardness this is going to create.

Okay so maybe you are forced to play the 20 questions game with someone over the phone or via text. Now instead of building comfort and rapport in field while eliciting a bigger emotional connection we are going to be attempting to build attraction and rapport via text or phone... Not saying it can't be done, just saying there is a better way.
Author:  Numb3r5 [ Sat May 05, 2012 4:12 am ]
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Assuming all you want is her number. Getting numbers based of attraction alone equals a lot of flakes and don't lead to as many dates as being in set longer and building some common ground.
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I agree, the flake factor will be huge with that routine. You have to have more of a conversation and build rapport.
Author:  Klauss [ Sat May 05, 2012 12:03 pm ]
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Quote:
try this speed technique

you see this hot girl walking,roll up on her and..

me:hi,can i tell you something real quick
her:yeah
me:i just literaly saw you walking and i just had to say hi,because you are so gorgeous/sexy/stunning
her:oh thank you(smile)
me:you probaly in a hurry huh..
her:yeah kind off
me:yeah me too,so i can't have a real good conversation with you in the middle of the street right now,but never too worry because i always can give you a call(grab your phone out of your pocket),whats your number?......BAM number!
really loved that =)
Author:  carlito_xb [ Sat May 05, 2012 5:59 pm ]
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building rapport and attraction is always better,but in daygame(street,bus,train etc.)is pretty hard 2 do because most girls are in a hurry,for example you're talking 2 a girl in a bus and the next stop she has 2 get out or a girl be walking down the street and when you stop her,she basicly forcing 2 end the conversation.
if i see daygame pua they almost always picking up tourist or girls at the beach, where it is obvious they're going 2 the beach but i do have 2 say that how hotter the girl is the better she responds :wink: ....daygame is a numbers game
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