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Author:  bittu [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 2:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Urgent advice needed because the game is still on!
Hello to my pua brothers all over the world! This post is a little long but still I request you to read it because even if you aren't capable to help me,you would learn one or two right things from my approach,I am sure(This was my 2nd approach btw). I am 19 yr old guy from a small city of India,so girls here are pretty much conservative.Now there is a girl,2 yrs older than me who used to give me iois.So after a lot of internal dialogues and man-boosting,I decided to approach her.


The following happened on 26 April :



I walked upto her when she was alone after her class.

Me: hey,can I talk to you?

She: No,I don't wanna talk

She started walking away.

Me: You look very cute!

She smiled (more of an open smile not a tight-lipped one) and walked away,I kept standing there,then she made a gesture toward a lab and said 'I have imp. work there' and went away.

I took her response pretty positively,thought she was just feeling shy and decided to approach her again.After like 10 min,I saw her again walking back from the college market.I decided to make a move and went after her(I was coming from her backside). She noticed me and increased her walking pace noticeably .Man,was I disheartened! I thought she is not interested and started
backing off.Then I thought : Fuck it! I am going to talk to her
now,whatever happens and literally ran upto her as she got far ahead
by then.WhenI was a little behind her,I called from her back :

Hey,please tell me your name!

Her : No,I don't wanna tell.

Me : Please!

Her (with a lil smile on her face) : See,I am not interested in these things.

Her: Are you doing b.tech?

I nodded in yes,smilingly while standing there..she was walking again.

Her : Which year?

Me : What do you think?

Her : I don't know.

Me: Guess!

By now she got much ahead of me again and I thought she isn't going to
answer now so I started turning my head from her when I heard her reply
: 3rd year??

Now,firstly I am not in 3rd year and secondly I was not expecting for
her to answer,so I didn't reply and went away..She too went away like
a bullet train!
Not that I wanted to hide that I am in second year and 2-3 yrs younger
than her,but I just thought it wasn't the right time to tell.Btw later
I found out that maybe the reason she was walking away like that from
me was coz she suffered from RAA(Reverse Approach Anxiety).Poor
girl,all if she knew pua,she could heal herself :p ReadSasha on this,i
am not allowed to post links coz i am new so google : sashapua why
girls walk away when she likes you.

Now I already knew her name and info (which guy doesn't know about his
crush already!).The reason I asked her name when I approached her was
to just initiate the convo.So after 2 days I went to her fb and
messaged :

hey,what's your name? lol

She has not replied,2 days have gone.It could be because she is not
interested in dating a younger guy(Although I am not saying that its impossible in India for a young guy to hit on an older girl,but still it is too far-far away
from being common).Or do you think she didn't reply because I acted
like a creep and messaged her on fb while she didn't even tell me her
name? Please help,what should I do next ? She is in her last year and
her session is going to end in a week,so i have a little time
left.Please answer fast coz I the game is still on and I haven't lost
the hope!
Author:  synergyz [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 5:07 pm ]
Post subject: 
Me: hey,can I talk to you?

She: No,I don't wanna talk

She started walking away.

Me: You look very cute!

DLV (you complimented her for being ''rude'' to you, that was a bad choice mate)


Hey,please tell me your name!

Her : No,I don't wanna tell.

Me : Please!

A sign of needenes, total disinterest for women


.So after 2 days I went to her fb and
messaged :

hey,what's your name? lol

Looks creepy and stalky to me.

She has not replied,2 days have gone.

It's because of the 3 reasons i've mentioned above not because you are younger.


But don't worry, learn from your mistakes and keep the game going! :)
Author:  In$tinct [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 5:24 pm ]
Post subject: 
Wow... I don't want to hurt you, but honestly this is brutal. Girl repeatedly mentions she doesn't want to talk to you, and you run after her. She's so uninterested that she doesn't even want to tell you her name, and after this, you show her you're the greatest stalker of all, by messaging her on facebook. Especially with something like this. It would have not hurt that bad, but that "lol" in the end is literally saying "Oh yeah I've had so much fun stalking you in the past times"

Dude... chill. You're not supposed to chase the woman. Especially if she's so uninterested. This is good for nothing more than humiliating yourself. Find another one mate, and don't get too upset about it. We've all been here once.
Author:  bittu [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 6:14 pm ]
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Guys,I am not saying to prove what I did was right but as i said earlier,Indian girls are conservative and they have a very high anti-slut shield.This is not any US where girls would openly express their sexuality.So,even if they like a guy,they won't talk to them in beginning just not to be considered too-easy.Thats why i reapproached her or said 'please' and maybe I did it all wrong but there was no reason for her to reinitiate convo by asking me ques if she wasn't interested at all and tell me that she has imp work to do when i was not going after her anymore,the first time.But yes,I admit the fb part was really foolish and should have seeked you great people's advice before doing this..btw thanks synergyz for that dlv part,you are right and in$tinct for telling me some truth although it hurt me a lil ;)
So,what i think now is that i should assess her body-lang and response toward me next time i see her in campus and base whether to drop her or not on it.Any opinions brothers?
Author:  In$tinct [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 6:50 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Guys,I am not saying to prove what I did was right but as i said earlier,Indian girls are conservative and they have a very high anti-slut shield.So,even if they like a guy,they won't talk to them in beginning just not to be considered too-easy.That why i said 'please' and maybe I did it all wrong but there was no reason for her to reinitiate convo by asking me ques if she wasn't interested at all.And yes,I admit the fb part was really foolish and should have seeked you great people's advice before doing this..btw thanks synergyz for that dlv part,you are right and in$tinct for telling me the truth although it hurt me a lil ;)
So,what i think now is that i should assess her body-lang and response toward me next time i see her in campus and base whether to drop her or not on it.
Conservative or not I don't see why you would need to beg for a woman to even talk to you. But okay... And no, you shouldn't ask our opinion before doing anything because you learn from your mistakes. It was the best thing you could do that you did what you thought was okay to do. I really suspect that this set is not worth pursuing anymore, but if you still think there's something to it, then hey... who am I to tell you what to do? But do yourself a favour and don't get too obsessed with one girl. Even if you want to game her, you should still be looking for other possibilities.
Author:  synergyz [ Sun Apr 29, 2012 10:01 pm ]
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What in$stinct said, leave her and move on, there are other fish in the sea.(even better!). The worst thing that can happen is, that you get oneitis (obssesion with 1 girl, it completely ruins your game). Gaming multiple girls has positive sides, because it gives you options and doesn't make you needy. Even if you are looking for a girlfriend i'd suggest you to game multiple girls, you can always keep them as friends/social proof when you get a girlfriend...
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