Quote: So I went to a bar last night with some friends. The one girl that I totally fell in love with was there. We dated for 3-4 months and worked together on a project for a work related engagement. Long story short, she started sending me mixed signals and playing games (wouldn't text me back, then out of the blue invite me to the movies, etc). I really really liked her so much (I rarely meet such a cool chick). Long story short, I asked her out a few times, was really romantic and she ignored my liking of her. So I sent her a text asking her if she was into me, cause I didn't feel like chasing after someone who didn't reciprocate. She never responded. let's call her The Flakster.
One week later, I texted her about getting paid for the project I did. I was kinda frustrated about her not responding to me so I called her out on it. We stopped dating and she only paid half of what she owed me.
Four months later:
Last night I went out with a few friends and she was there. My heart stopped for a second. After so many months, I was still into her. I sat down at a table and she looked at me, I looked at her and she smiled. I didn't go up to her, cause it just felt weird. So later on in the evening, two girls opened me and said I look like a certain celebrity. They were totally into me. 30 min later the Flakster (the girl I really liked) came up and said goodbye to one of the two girls (they knew each other). Then she tells the Flakster, "doesn't he look like this celebrity" the Flakster just said yes and walked away.
Later on that evening (after the Flakster had left) I kissed 4 girls in 30 seconds. I thought it was awesome.
Questions
Do you guys think she got jealous that other girls were showing interest in me, thus increasing my appeal and value? Why did she just walk away like that? Is it a total indicator that she doesn't like me or is it an indicator that she felt jealous?
Finally, I thought I would text her saying that I wished we spoke last night and that I was gonna come up and talk to her, but that I got distracted.
I never gamed this girl, I sincerely really liked her.
Games aside, what do you guys think?
you kissed four girls and you're still talking about this one? in my opinion, you don't need to know what i think, you should CHANGE THE WAY YOU THINK.
chances are good that she is not into you. now it could be your own doing, or her's. does not matter. forget her! once you get distance from her and she feels it is genuine that you don't care, she might come after you. but don't bet on it.
i have liked many girls in that way and it always let to failure, or in the best case, a relationship i regretted. don't make that mistake. you will be a much happier man. let her chase you, let her try for you. no? then she's not worth it.
you will save time, be happier, have more women, and have the ability to concentrate on the important things in life, which are not women! i feel sorry for you because i know how you feel. i wish someone had told me this in those situations and i listened to thim. i would have saved a lot of time.
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