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Author:  tay [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 3:15 am ]
Post subject:  how to respond to "go away"/"beat it"/"fuck off"
When trying to open a set and one of the girls says above phrases, what is the best solution to diffuse this? I tried turning my back on one of the girls and just talk to other girls. I am not sure if that's a right technique, that's why I am asking for some help. She didn't make a big scene out of this, probably because I felt after like 30 seconds of talking to other girls.
Author:  nixxor [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 6:20 am ]
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you handled it right. GO away means leave me alone and that's literally what you do. These type of girls are huge turn off for me anyways so don't waste your time. And yes, flirting with others in front of them is effective. Field-tested
Author:  Justeffy [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 5:15 pm ]
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It means she is probably not open for some action tonight.
She has most likely had a bad day at work, and now she's pouring it over you.

Just say OK, with a little smile on your face and smoothly walk away.
Show her that you're happier than her.
Author:  Andrasol [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 5:26 pm ]
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or insert a simple "hey... drop the attitude you're not impressing any1..." then walk away open a diff set.. etc.
Author:  nixxor [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 7:12 pm ]
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I STRONGLY disagree with Andrasol... its just better not to say anything and just keep doing what you are doing. Respect her decision. If you sense she is shit testing than you can breake it other than that it means what it says.

If you were to say anything like "hey... drop the attitude you're not impressing any1..." it shows a sign of weakness ON YOUR PART. it shows you are affected by it... and WHY DO YOU NEED HER to be in a good mood for you???? WHo are you?

You gotta have SUPERSTAR mentality. Superstars don't need other ppl to be in a good mood. THEY BRING THE GOOD MOOD PPL FEED OFF of iT. Some won't reciprocate but you are not gonna go around bashing them.

Just to clear it up
Author:  wise4reckless [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 8:33 pm ]
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for fuck off smile and say sounds fun when are we gonna have one of those
for go away say ok no problem but not trying to be disrespectful or anything but I just was curious why your so mad?
for beat it smile and say don't threaten me with a good time
Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 8:36 pm ]
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You show them the bird
Author:  titanman [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 9:10 pm ]
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or insert a simple "hey... drop the attitude you're not impressing any1..." then walk away open a diff set.. etc.
What does that achieve? All it needs is for one of the drunk girls to raise her voice and you've attracted unwanted attention.
Author:  Andrasol [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 10:29 pm ]
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I STRONGLY disagree with Andrasol... its just better not to say anything and just keep doing what you are doing. Respect her decision. If you sense she is shit testing than you can breake it other than that it means what it says.

If you were to say anything like "hey... drop the attitude you're not impressing any1..." it shows a sign of weakness ON YOUR PART. it shows you are affected by it... and WHY DO YOU NEED HER to be in a good mood for you???? WHo are you?

You gotta have SUPERSTAR mentality. Superstars don't need other ppl to be in a good mood. THEY BRING THE GOOD MOOD PPL FEED OFF of iT. Some won't reciprocate but you are not gonna go around bashing them.

Just to clear it up
i can see why u disagree. yet when u just walk of make sure u don't have that typical " i'm beaten" look on you're face.
Author:  charblad [ Thu Apr 19, 2012 10:43 pm ]
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I STRONGLY disagree with Andrasol... its just better not to say anything and just keep doing what you are doing. Respect her decision. If you sense she is shit testing than you can breake it other than that it means what it says.
Just to clear it up
Yup, if a girl says it like that just do it; there's almost no way to pick up a girl like that because that's not a shit test, that's a statement; also like nixx says DON'T say anything or try to "get back at her", just trust me it doesn't work out like you'd think it might
Author:  Leo-Jed [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 2:35 pm ]
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I STRONGLY disagree with Andrasol... its just better not to say anything and just keep doing what you are doing. Respect her decision. If you sense she is shit testing than you can breake it other than that it means what it says.
Just to clear it up
Yup, if a girl says it like that just do it; there's almost no way to pick up a girl like that because that's not a shit test, that's a statement; also like nixx says DON'T say anything or try to "get back at her", just trust me it doesn't work out like you'd think it might
Yes this is good advice. If you try to get her back it will only add fuel to the fire and escalate into a back and forth.

Some girls seem to think that being in a night club/bar gives them some kind of licence to talk to men like shit. They would never talk to somebody like this in the office or at home when meeting people. In fact they would never like their friends, family or work colleagues to hear them talk like that.

The truth is they do it because they CAN. If they spoke to somebody from one of the social circles listed above this would cause them many problems when seeing them in the future. If it’s just a stranger who they are never going to see again they will often get great satisfaction from shooting you down in such a way.

A few things to remember:

As already stated do not WAIST YOUR TIME arguing with the girl

Recognise that this is not a personal thing towards you

Remember this is just a bitch shield

Keep in mind this happens VERY rarely, especially if you go in with an opener/FTC.

If it does happen you can just smile and say nice to meet you or use a line to maybe turn her mind around and let you in.

Open another set close by, let them see you having a really great time and they will soon be sorry for not letting you talk to them.

Once again NEVER FIGHT BACK
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 2:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: how to respond to "go away"/"beat it"/"fuck off"
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When trying to open a set and one of the girls says above phrases, what is the best solution to diffuse this? I tried turning my back on one of the girls and just talk to other girls. I am not sure if that's a right technique, that's why I am asking for some help. She didn't make a big scene out of this, probably because I felt after like 30 seconds of talking to other girls.

personally it is not in my nature to walk away with out a win, I would smile, take a sip of my SoCo Manhattan, look her in the eye, and say "So does that mean a blow job is out of the question?" :twisted:
Author:  Freshmakerr [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 4:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: how to respond to "go away"/"beat it"/"fuck off"
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When trying to open a set and one of the girls says above phrases, what is the best solution to diffuse this? I tried turning my back on one of the girls and just talk to other girls. I am not sure if that's a right technique, that's why I am asking for some help. She didn't make a big scene out of this, probably because I felt after like 30 seconds of talking to other girls.
This hapenes alot here in romania...and i found that the best way to deal with this is mistery's 'You don't go out offen? ha ?'...or eaven 'Welcome to civilisation !' or 'Wow, is she allwais like this ?'...this dosen't help alot the situation, but it DOSEN'T HEART YOUR SELF ASTEAM as bad as just turning back and walking away...for me at least...
Author:  tay [ Fri Apr 20, 2012 11:34 pm ]
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Yeah I feel like it's better just to ignore her and walk away smiling, politely. It's hard stupid when other girls still might be interested. lol
Author:  Captian'Merica [ Sat Apr 21, 2012 2:09 am ]
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it sounds like that girl has sand in her vag and needs a spoon or shovel to get it out lol
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