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| Author: | Playa93 [ Sat Feb 11, 2012 12:37 pm ] |
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Hey guys. I want to start off pointing out that I have confidence and that I'm a good looking guy, and I can talk girls easily.. Ive just came home from the military, and I was flirting with nearly 3 girls. When we was in the woods, I touched one of the girls in her thighs, and she said "Is it going to be a threesome tonight? I said with chill "We only have 2 minutes to do it in so I don't know. I said that because the military told us that we only have 2 minutes to sleep in. But although she showed me some sexual tension.. I couldn't keep the talk going... The only problem I have, in my whole entire life is to show my sexual side. By this I mean, how can I talk sexual? How can I make the girl think that I'm sexually attractive? I don't know how to talk sexual, specially when I go parties. I'm 100% direct. I think indirect is bullshit and a waste of time.. I need to learn how to create a sexual tension, through in real life, and msn or facebook. I really need help with this.. I'm currently reading a book called "Badboy Lifestyle" And its the best book I ever read. I'm still reading it. And its learning me plenty of good advices. But I need some advices from you guys.. What do you start off with when it comes to creating a sexual tension? How can you build a fully sexual rapport and get her to have sex with me?. Hope you can help me guys. |
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| Author: | lexcartney [ Sat Feb 11, 2012 4:51 pm ] |
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I have read that a deep voice helps building sexual tension. By this I mean that once you are in the comfort or rapport stage, you talk with a deep voice that comes from your diaphragm, which will make your stomach or chest vibrate. You could practice that. Also kino escalate in a sexual way, 1 step back 2 steps forward, as the mystery method says (I think maybe I am wrong with the reference). Check out the Escalation Ladder by Vin Dicarlo, it is free on internet. |
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| Author: | Playa93 [ Sat Feb 11, 2012 6:32 pm ] |
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But I don't even know what to open with, I don't know what to say.... |
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| Author: | needlz [ Sat Feb 11, 2012 6:42 pm ] |
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Israeli, aren't you? |
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| Author: | Playa93 [ Sat Feb 11, 2012 7:33 pm ] |
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Quote: Israeli, aren't you?
Arabian..
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| Author: | needlz [ Sat Feb 11, 2012 8:07 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Israeli, aren't you?
Arabian.. |
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| Author: | Playa93 [ Sun Feb 12, 2012 12:27 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote: Israeli, aren't you?
Arabian.. |
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| Author: | needlz [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 2:38 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote:
Arabian..
Close enough |
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| Author: | Lips_and_Hips [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 3:39 pm ] |
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Quote: But I need some advices from you guys.. What do you start off with when it comes to creating a sexual tension? How can you build a fully sexual rapport and get her to have sex with me?.
Kino escalation is a big one, but don't escalate too quickly... Take your time and tease her a little - make her feel like you want her, but not so badly that you will do anything - that reeks of desperation and is a major turn off. At the beginning of my relationship with my ex, he used to hold me a little at arm's length, whilst still makiing me aware that he wanted me and that ONE day, we would get together. It made me crazy with desire for him. I would think to myself "why is he not making a move?!" and then just when I thought I couldn't hold out any longer, he made his move and we had an amazing four year relationship following that! Good luck buddy |
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| Author: | AdamThomas [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 7:20 pm ] |
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"Openers" and verbal game will not create sexual tension, it's created mostly through non-verbal communication. Check out 60years of challenge, his stuff is all about sexual tension. Here's a good post of his: 60s-anti-manifesto-must-read-vt72952.html?highlight= |
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| Author: | Playa93 [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 8:43 pm ] |
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Quote: "Openers" and verbal game will not create sexual tension, it's created mostly through non-verbal communication. Check out 60years of challenge, his stuff is all about sexual tension. Here's a good post of his:
Good one, but I just don't understand it 100%..60s-anti-manifesto-must-read-vt72952.html?highlight= His point is to not break the tension? But what if you go up to a girl and present ur self and she present her self.. What to do after?? the tension would already been broken from there? |
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| Author: | AdamThomas [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 9:19 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: "Openers" and verbal game will not create sexual tension, it's created mostly through non-verbal communication. Check out 60years of challenge, his stuff is all about sexual tension. Here's a good post of his:
Good one, but I just don't understand it 100%..60s-anti-manifesto-must-read-vt72952.html?highlight= His point is to not break the tension? But what if you go up to a girl and present ur self and she present her self.. What to do after?? the tension would already been broken from there? |
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| Author: | Hawke91 [ Sat Feb 18, 2012 7:21 pm ] |
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How to create sexual tension? When you talk, talk slow, eye contact, use a lot of pauses, "the triangle" which means when you talk watch continually her eyes and lips; that's all ST. You can also use the Yes-Q ladder, either ask or make statements with which she agrees or says yes. Use kino (hair stroke, or hand on her back). Gambler had an awesome video about that. |
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| Author: | Playa93 [ Mon Feb 20, 2012 3:55 pm ] |
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Do you have a link to it? I want to see it. And when I said present then I meant introduce.. |
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| Author: | AdamThomas [ Mon Feb 20, 2012 5:18 pm ] |
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Quote: when I said present then I meant introduce..
Nah what you would do then is continue to build it non-verbally, as in get close to her, give strong eye contact, all the stuff hawke91 mentioned above. The tension breaks when you start talking a lot, cracking jokes, trying to be entertaining and social (basically everything mainstream pick-up teaches you to do breaks tension rather than creates it, which is a bad thing). It also breaks when you start making out with her or fuck her. That's why you should keep the tension until you get her to a private place, you want the first kiss to lead to clothes flying off and you both fucking eachothers brains out.
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