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| Author: | Mr. S [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 2:44 am ] |
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Ok, so the only problem I've encountered with picking up women is trying to do this at the gym. I just do not know how to approach them. The gym I go to is normally very crowded with a bunch of beautiful women. I am a good looking guy and in very good shape but I just do not know how to approach a women while she is working out. I am not talking about her being on the treadmill either but just in the weightroom in general. How would you guys go about this situation? |
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| Author: | FCgame [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 5:09 pm ] |
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Hey! There are a lot of "excuses" you can use to approach them, just think about it. You can just tease them when you open them, if you see her or them every day at the gym you can say something like " I like that in a woman perseverance, is not something very common these days" if that is too direct fo you, there is something that I love saying " What excuse should I use to start a conversation with you" You can also check this link, here I talk about number closing and "excuses" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oga02d8 ... XbE65DvGJu |
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| Author: | Decessum [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 8:19 pm ] |
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Simple. Don't approach them when she's working out. I don't know if this is just me or whatever, but I think of my gym as a "sacred place". I go there after work to relax and work out, not to hook up with girls. Just think of it this way: If you're working out, and then some girl comes to talk to you and interrupt your workout. Would you be happy about it? I personally wouldn't. Just my two cents, the gym is a place where I wouldn't pick up. Unless you see her outside the gym, or whatever. Or just try to strike up random friendly conversation without the intention to pick up, the more you see her, the more you work on her then one day you can offer her a cup of coffee or a drink when you both go out. |
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| Author: | Bo_Darville [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 10:34 pm ] |
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Quote: Simple. Don't approach them when she's working out. I don't know if this is just me or whatever, but I think of my gym as a "sacred place". I go there after work to relax and work out, not to hook up with girls.
Yeah, my thoughts exactly.Just think of it this way: If you're working out, and then some girl comes to talk to you and interrupt your workout. Would you be happy about it? I personally wouldn't. Just my two cents, the gym is a place where I wouldn't pick up. Unless you see her outside the gym, or whatever. Or just try to strike up random friendly conversation without the intention to pick up, the more you see her, the more you work on her then one day you can offer her a cup of coffee or a drink when you both go out. Maybe if you run into her walking into, or leaving the gym, but otherwise I get the impression that women working out just want to be left alone. Unless maybe you're super good looking and ripped, then they may be interested, but for the rest of us mere mortals, the gym is prob better left a no-pick up zone. |
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| Author: | meetjoeblack [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 12:14 am ] |
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Wow, I just posted about this but, somewhere off topic. How about people that work there? Cause, its similar to social circle, more experience needed in case it gets messy? There is this girl who is pretty cute. The gym is full of guys and distractions so, now time is really the perfect opportunity. Now, I know this isn't hard or impossible. I am just coming off rusty game. I lost my sister and dad in a accident and now, I am coming out of being depressed, starting to accept stuff, and I am getting some success which feels good again. Some days, I feel like she is interested, and at other times, she is very hard to read. Rsd assumes I should think she likes me. I finished flawless natural so, I used tims, "Hi, I am Tim?" Opener but, I replaced Tim with Joe. I flirted with her one day when I seen her at a coffee shop. I should have did a better job though as in, made more of the opportunity. |
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| Author: | SevenOfHearts [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 1:12 am ] |
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The best if when they are on the treadmill and they are going at some slow or moderate pace going maybe on a cool down (Exercise stimulates the release of endorphins,which makes for positive results too) , You just throw some small talk out there, If they take the bait then get into some personal details and shoot for a number close...Maybe something along the lines of being cardio partner or something, Butttt I would only suggest that if you are looking for more then a slay...Because as the saying goes, Don't shit where you eat. |
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| Author: | meetjoeblack [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 1:29 am ] |
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Quote: The best if when they are on the treadmill and they are going at some slow or moderate pace going maybe on a cool down (Exercise stimulates the release of endorphins,which makes for positive results too) , You just throw some small talk out there, If they take the bait then get into some personal details and shoot for a number close...Maybe something along the lines of being cardio partner or something, Butttt I would only suggest that if you are looking for more then a slay...Because as the saying goes, Don't shit where you eat.
Thanks man. I missed my chance. I know there will be more chances but, it really sucks when, the perfect opportunity presents itself and I miss it. I hate that. It is not shocking since the current situation I am in my life. Still, I wont make excuses. Thanks a lot man. Well, I am not sure what can happen. She is in the gym, she is petite, I like that, and I am open to see what happens. I want to get back a sex life. Its amazing how, I can go from a number, date, day 2s, a sex life to losing my sister and dad in a accident, no girls, and I am starting back all over again. I am gaining success so, its feeling good again. I want to be better then I ever have been before.
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| Author: | SevenOfHearts [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 1:44 am ] |
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Just remember that confidence is going to be your best friend, If you are fit and good looking, Just level the head game. May your skills guide you. |
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| Author: | VV Cephei [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 2:45 am ] |
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I'm no PUA, but I'll offer a couple of ideas. I do hear the people that say that most people like to be left alone while they're working out. However, you can do a few things that aren't as intrusive, or may not "bother" a girl much. If she's working out on a bench or piece of equipment near you, you could ask her how many sets she has left, or even better, ask her if she minds if you work in with her for a few sets. Then you could make a little small talk while you're both working out sharing the bench/machine. Or, if you're in good shape (I believe you said you were), you could always offer her a little friendly advice on correct form, or an idea on a different exercise that could hit the muscle group she's working on. I'd watch how you say something like that, because some people don't like to be corrected, so you'd have to be kind of tactful with how you said it. If you see her in the gym at the same time each day, or you know her rough routine, you could just start small with a smile, saying hi, asking her how many sets she has, things like that. Then, after you've made the initial friendly contact, it will likely be easier to approach her to say hi next time you see her, or she may even come up to you to say hi. Good luck. |
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| Author: | Mr. S [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 6:00 am ] |
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Ya I'm pretty good looking and I'm very ripped (not trying to be conceded or anything) But ya I see the same couple of girls that I want to approach basically everyday. They are All probably a couple years older than me and I am also very busy during the week with work ( I have a very attentive job tha requires a lot of working hours) so I only get to go out once a week if that. Also a lot of these girls I want to approach including one of the ones I'm talking bout are Hispanic and I am very white (not in a pale sense but just a white boy) Never seen the girl outside the gym before or else that would be a way easier place to make a move. But I feel like I'm in the gym. Im definitely on the good looking side and I'm very jacked especially a for my age per se, so I feel like the gym should be my sanctuary just like the beach. I definitely agree with you though on if a girl tried talking to me while I was working out. Unless she was really fucking hot. Than I could care less lol. |
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