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Author:  I2AYDAR [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 5:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Approach girl after class/ Need tips
Well i saw this girl in my English class and decided to talk to her. I got her number and txted her over the weekend. It took her a while to respond and once the weekend was once over i didn't get a response.
So today i talked to her after class and we had a good conversation but she gave me little eye contact. I asked her to go to do some HW with me in the library but her first answer was sure but once we go there she said she had 2 go.
Should i keep on going or stop?
Author:  Stylite [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 5:15 pm ]
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Sounds like you may be playing your game wrong and she might not be feeling it. You shouldn't ask her if she wants to come to the library to do homework with you, you should tell her "I'm going to the library to do some homework, you should come with me."

It's not hard to get girls to be attracted to you when you play your cards right, the point is she should be chasing an opportunity to hang out with you and not the other way around. It's cool that you got her number, that was already a good sign, but maybe what you were talking to her about made her think twice. I'd recommend reading up on some PUA routines and methods to keep girls interested in you.

- Stylite
Author:  I2AYDAR [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 5:17 pm ]
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I'm new to the "game". I gave a horrible first impression. Damn...
Author:  Stylite [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 5:37 pm ]
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It's ok, the good thing about the game is that there's always going to be more. Take it as a lesson and move on unless you're certain she may still be interested. Play a little "Cat & String" and don't give her much positive attention for a while. She may believe she did something wrong and try and make up for it to get your attention back.

- Stylite
Author:  I2AYDAR [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 5:53 pm ]
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Is it possible to redeem myself?
Author:  Stylite [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 5:59 pm ]
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Depends how far you got into your conversations with her and how many "weak attitude traits" you showed her.

If she thinks you're an under-confident person who is always second guessing himself or unsure of his behavior, she obviously won't be interested. It'll be hard to come in and prove you're Mr. Alpha all of a sudden if she already has it in her head that you're an insecure guy. She'll think you'll be "trying too hard" at that point. You can go for the jealousy routine and game a bunch of girls around campus until you get natural confidence, or she sees that you are getting a lot of attention.

Social proofing will also work if you can get a big social circle together and make sure you're the life of it. A good PUA will make sure that by the end of his semester, half the campus likes him :)

- Stylite
Author:  I2AYDAR [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 2:35 am ]
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Well i still want 2 be friends with her. How do i make that happen?
Author:  Stylite [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 3:52 pm ]
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Friend zoning your self is pretty easy.

If you want to be friends with her, be EXACTLY the guy all girls say they want. Compliment her, have a bunch of small talk with her, give her a daily ego boost. But again, that's not something I would normally do. It makes her feel superior to you and she'll just want you around so she could complain to you about all the douchebags she likes and so she could get a nice emotional pick me up from you whenever she need it. Most of the conversations will be like...

"I need a guys opinion, is this a cute dress...?"

"Ugh! This guy I'm seeing is pissing me off, he's always..."

"Do you think my hair looks good like this....?"


You end up being her shrink and the guy she uses when she wants to know if guys like what she's doing.

Being friends with girls isn't great, but you can use her to build rapport with her friends or show up at parties with her for social proof.

- Stylite
Author:  I2AYDAR [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 12:00 am ]
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Ok. Thx a lot man.
How do u give her the impression that i want to be friends. Cause i think she thinks i want to be more than friends?
Author:  Stylite [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 12:06 am ]
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Most girls think that any guy that talks to them wants to be more than friends (it's usually true)

To actually be her friend, just be yourself. Make small talk with her, treat her like you would any of your buddies. There's nothing to it. After a while she won't see you as a threat and just open up to you.

- Stylite
Author:  I2AYDAR [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 4:41 am ]
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Wow. I just found out that she either has a BF or has a real close relationship with this guy. So now i see why the has no interest.
Any tips on that?
Author:  atom [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 5:54 am ]
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My advice is nexttt don't get too hung up on this one girl. Look up oneitis bro, date other girls let her see you dating other girls. Friend zone is not fun, unless you can keep her attraction and sexual tension, she will find it difficult not to see you as just a friend.
Author:  I2AYDAR [ Fri Jan 27, 2012 3:23 am ]
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My advice is nexttt don't get too hung up on this one girl. Look up oneitis bro, date other girls let her see you dating other girls. Friend zone is not fun, unless you can keep her attraction and sexual tension, she will find it difficult not to see you as just a friend.
Yeah i think i got oneitis. shit.
So what now. i have her in class so it's kinda akward. I usually walk with her after class. Should i stop that or???
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