Yeah i agree with chai on approaching the mother. For example if you are at the supermarket, talk to her about dishes and recipes. Ask her questions on what ingredients are best for a particular dish. The way i would go about this is to compliment the mother. The more you impress her mother, the more the daughter will be open to getting to know you more. After talking about the recipes ( or her opinion on men's clothing - if you are at the mall) ask her this question, "and who might this be?" (Referring to the daughter) (if you want to spice it up you can say, "and who might this young beautiful lady be?" Or "and this gorgeous lady is?" (YOU MUST SHAKE HER HAND. I REPEAT REACH YOUR HAND OUT TO HER AND SHAKE HER HAND AND MAKE SURE YOU GOT THE BEST SET OF GOOGLY EYES AT THAT MOMENT. WORK HER WITH YOUR EYES AND MAKE SURE YOU HAVE A FIRM BUT NOT TOO OVERPOWERING HANDSHAKE. THIS IS PROBABLY THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF YOUR APPROACH IF YOU WANT HER TO GET TO KNOW YOU FURTHER. YOU GOTTA MAKE A STRONG IMPACT AT THIS MOMENT). After she says that she is her daughter say something like, "you both are beautiful, it must run in the family" or "she is really pretty, i can see where she got it from". Here you are putting two compliments in one. You can even say you are putting multiple compliments into one if you count the compliment to their whole family.
After she introduces you to her daughter, ask her a question that will give an indirect compliment to the mother, " well (daughter's name), are you as good of a cook as your mother is?" or "do you have a good sense of fashion like your mother does?" . I think by making her mother comfortable around you as much as possible will make it easier for you to approach the daughter. If you show the intention of getting with the daughter by being too direct, the mother will think of you as a creeper and try to keep her daughter away from you. But if you show that you are harmless by engaging in harmless conversation and repeatedly complimenting the mother, your intentions of getting with the daughter will be less obvious and from there
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