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Author:  gotmyswaggaback [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 11:50 am ]
Post subject:  Brand new to online dating, just started first attempt
I lurked this site today and some people here actually seem to have decent game. Quick background on me. I havent had much trouble in my life getting laid, but I actually have pretty weak game and have a lot of off days. Im 27 and have had a good 30 different partners in my life, but almost all of them have been because I was with fun company and girls had a great time with my friends and I. This is great for getting laid but I am looking to be independent and find girls that can lead to relationships.

So I got one started on POF, she is 18 and Im 27, but that is what I'm kinda used to. Not a perv I just do better with the 18-22 crowd, and I rave so that is often the crowd I'm around. Online I can just let the confidence out, it's easy, but I would like some help and critique If you guys could.

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Me:
Subject: Do not open this!
Hey! Dig your profile, you seem like you could be a ton of fun... Or maybe just
trouble, I haven't decided yet

Her:
Sorry, I couldn't help it. I had to open it, lol.

Me:
Subject: RE:RE:Do not open this!
Well I imagine you get swamped with ton of generic messages all day.
Attractive girls on here probably get bored sick of seeing a page full
of "hey" "hi." Well I got your attention, so now you can give me more
than 2 lines info on ya, specifically, what music do you like/dance to.
Plz say electronic! (dubstep, hardstyle)

Her:
Haha, you did get my attention. I listen to rap, r&b, some country,
kpop, and rock. I haven't really heard any dubstep songs before.. but
I'm guessing you know how to shuffle?

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Ok so where do you recommend going from here? I do know how to shuffle, I see openings to invite to some shows, I can take her rave parties with local Dj's, lots of options. But cant tell yet if she would be down, so I assume if I yank the line already she wont have bitten yet.

Help a new guy out plz :)
Author:  ZannyUK [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 1:11 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Online I can just let the confidence out, it's easy,
Confidence isn't an issue online, as you're putting absolutely nothing at risk. And in my opinion, online dating isn't really Game, as there are no transferable skills to "real" life, i.e. being good typing a message does not equal good at chatting.

I don't do it, and it's just another excuse not to game for real.

Sorry to burst your bubble man.

Zan
Author:  gotmyswaggaback [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 4:30 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Quote:
Online I can just let the confidence out, it's easy,
Confidence isn't an issue online, as you're putting absolutely nothing at risk. And in my opinion, online dating isn't really Game, as there are no transferable skills to "real" life, i.e. being good typing a message does not equal good at chatting.

I don't do it, and it's just another excuse not to game for real.

Sorry to burst your bubble man.

Zan
thx for the advice

Anyone have some input, or help of some kind?
Author:  gotmyswaggaback [ Wed Dec 14, 2011 5:42 pm ]
Post subject: 
Ok so I kept it goin but it kinda fizzed a bit, I need to be creative with next text get her back interested. If someone could help me a bit it would be cool. As much as I enjoyed someone stopping in to tell us about themselves and how they dont do online dating, I was actually more interested in real help.

Oh I see, that's cool. I'm still trying to learn. Yeah, it was your
username. Haha that does sound pretty fun.

Here is what is goin on since then

Me
I Shuffle but just got into it a few months ago, my username must have
clued ya in. Every weekend there are shows, best part is they arnt full
of drunkards like you see in a club. The big shows are the best, next
up Resolution 2012! Some can be so much fun you spend the next few days
reliving the night in your head

Her:
Oh I see, that's cool. I'm still trying to learn. Yeah, it was your
username. Haha that does sound pretty fun.
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