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Author:  jpmorganjr [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 9:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Rejection Proof

You have never been rejected by a woman.

Ever.

And you never will be.

Author:  jcrane5 [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 10:50 pm ]
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What do you mean?

Author:  GWhizz [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 11:08 pm ]
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The truth.

Author:  papichulo818 [ Sat Oct 15, 2011 2:43 am ]
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Wow, what an inanely stupid post. Not sure what would compel somebody to create such garbage.

Author:  jpmorganjr [ Sat Oct 15, 2011 7:39 pm ]
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Rejection depends on perception.

Choose the perceptions that empower you.

"I have never been rejected and I never will be."

Author:  papichulo818 [ Sun Oct 16, 2011 2:34 am ]
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Rejection depends on perception.

Choose the perceptions that empower you.

"I have never been rejected and I never will be."
Wow, i'll use the same rationale to convince myself that I just didn't read what you typed.Image

Author:  Echoplay [ Sun Oct 16, 2011 4:58 am ]
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Wow, what an inanely stupid post. Not sure what would compel somebody to create such garbage.
yo, perception's everything man. Not sure where you've been living but if you're a PUA or even just learning the basics you learn inner game that reality is what you make it. Think positive, positive shit will end up happening. Vice versa, you get the pic.

As far as never being rejected? That's right man, I've never gotten rejected. I've only gotten feedback as what not to do next time.

Author:  guruman [ Sun Oct 16, 2011 6:11 am ]
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Wow, what an inanely stupid post. Not sure what would compel somebody to create such garbage.
yo, perception's everything man. Not sure where you've been living but if you're a PUA or even just learning the basics you learn inner game that reality is what you make it. Think positive, positive shit will end up happening. Vice versa, you get the pic.

As far as never being rejected? That's right man, I've never gotten rejected. I've only gotten feedback as what not to do next time.
I'm all for positive thinking, but let's not be silly. The word "rejected" HAS a definition, and whether you view this rejection as feedback or a personal stab doesn't change the fact that you have been rejected. Your just trying to be semantic, so knock yourself out but read the thread and I think youll realize the only one you are confusing is yourself

Author:  pleasureseeker [ Sun Oct 16, 2011 9:27 am ]
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o_O.... I don't think living in denial is the best way to approach this but it's the right direction. Changing perceptions is what IS important. Getting out there and getting tons of rejection at once will help you more than just telling yourself this shit over and over..... After like 100+ rejections you just stop caring. Girls are moody as fuck, i've had girls be totally disinterested one day then be begging for my attn the next... I don't even really take it all too seriously either I just keep hitting them up when i see 'em until they agree to give up there number/go out and I escalate kino from there. You can get any girl if you just stop being insecure and stop taking rejection personally.

Author:  jpmorganjr [ Sun Oct 16, 2011 3:36 pm ]
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I'm 33.
Not a PUA and never have been.
Been with plenty of incredible, brilliant and sexy women.
And I have never been rejected by a woman.
Not even for a moment.
I'm sure I could perceive it another way, but why bother?
This perception serves me very well.
Which is why I share it.

And secondly, semantics and metaphor are at the building blocks of beliefs.

Recommended reading: "As A Man Thinketh" by James Allen

Author:  Rag&BoneMan [ Sun Oct 16, 2011 5:48 pm ]
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I'm not going to lie the first time I read this I honestly thought you were trolling. I'll give my 2 cents on this one too. Rejection is a part of what makes this fun for me, moreover accepting its a part of a night out and it makes me human.

You can get rejected from opening, accept it and make it part of your past then move onto do better things having learned from it. Maybe this isn't playing up to this whole inner game theme you've got going here, but I find setting my expectations absurdly high means a bigger fall, no matter how you decide to sugar coat it.

As you'll note from my signature I've not had nearly as much experience as some of you have in this, but I really hope that in a few more months time I can look back on previous mistakes having learnt and laughed about what went wrong and look at the progress I've made from that point as a person who's aware of his own flaws.

Author:  Octave [ Sun Oct 16, 2011 10:48 pm ]
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This is retarded logic. Your "frame" is denial.

Heres a better one. Rejection is a part of life, learn to embrace it. Getting rejected in your opener doesnt mean you were rejected personally, it means that how you opened was rejected. a girl cant reject you if she doesnt know you. But she can reject what you do

Author:  jpmorganjr [ Mon Oct 17, 2011 12:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Automatic

Of course I was baiting with the post.

It's obviously an absurd idea here.

And yet, if you ask many men who have fulfilling lives with women, they will seldom relate to the idea of being rejected.

Rejection becomes the focus when it gets in the way of your primary outcome.

With a different primary outcome, subjectively you don't see and objectively the circumstances you are describing in fact happen less as well.

Author:  JayDeej [ Mon Oct 17, 2011 4:19 pm ]
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I think you should have clarified all of this in your first post, rather than posting a one-liner.

It depends on how you look at it. Maybe you look at it in a different way than me, but when I try to hit on a girl and she doesn't respond positive, I consider that as a rejection. That does not necessarily have to be bad, because I believe at least 80 % (if not more) of the rejections are not personal. She can have a boyfriend, be lesbian, having a bad day et cetera. And maybe you are just not her type.
Who cares? Pick yourself up and go for the next one.
She doesn't like you? Alright, then she obviously doesn't know what she is missing.

If it helps you by calling it 'not a rejection', then I am sure it serves a purpose. I do not criticize you for it at all, but I don't think everyone here sees it the way you do. Just don't get discouraged if you are getting rejected every now and then.

Author:  Athenian [ Mon Oct 17, 2011 9:10 pm ]
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As far as never being rejected? That's right man, I've never gotten rejected. I've only gotten feedback as what not to do next time.
I never thought of it that way. You are completely right.

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