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Author:  BackUp [ Thu May 11, 2006 7:06 am ]
Post subject:  The Wing Rules
What makes a great wingman????
This topic has been on my mind for the last few days so here is a short essay
about it. Like to get feedback on your experience.

A great wingman can increase your game to a much higher level, while a bad
wingman cause a lot of crash and burns.
However, be advised that a great PUA does not automatically a great Wingman
make.
There are guidelines and then there are tactics that are crucial to being a
great wingman.


Rules and guidelines:

A. The most basic agreement: Your wingman is the coolest, funniest, most
interesting person around.
He does not really tell bad jokes, he is never boring, and he is always the
coolest guy around.


B. The second agreement: He who opens the set controls the set.

Your wingman opens a 2-set consisting of a 6 and 9. OK, Sherlock, take a wild
guess as to which one his target is? Yes, the hotter girl.
The guy who opens the set controls the set. He is the one who put his balls on
the line to approach and open the set. The first 30 to 45 seconds are the
toughest parts of the set. The guy who opens is the one who at times fights the
butterflies, weathers the storm and takes the heat.
He is also unlocking, teasing and negging the target HB in order to soften her
up for the close or isolation. You coming in and going after the target would
be equivalent of relieving your buddy in the 10th round of a boxing match after
your buddy just softened up the opponent for 9 full rounds.




TACTICS:


*****Calibrate, calibrate, calibrate:

Before entering the set that your pal just opened, calibrate to see where he is
in the set.
Example: Are the girls locked up? You may have to go in with a false
disqualifier to help him out.
Do not enter set blindly and start spitting routines. Calibrate before making
your move.

Establish a system of communication and CALIBRATE.
If your wingman is in Rapport phase where is doing some fluff talk and
comfort building, realize it and back off. Going into the set and running
routines at this point is essentially cockblocking him. You might as well
be the fucking "Drag-away" girl at this point.

*****Communication:

One of my favorite all time wings is Dreamweaver [DW.]
DW and I have a system of communication. It's sort of like girl code,
except it's PUA code.
If DW rolls up, I'll introduce him, but then give him one of 3 different signs.
One of which mean that I am in Rapport Phase! I am comfort building. Don't come
in
with mini-cold or cocky/funny routines. Calling the girls "Power-puff" at
this point is obstructive. (Never mind the fact that I may have already used
it.)

More on communication: DW and I run a lot of the same routines. We are running
Tyler Durden's and Mystery Methods.
If he rolls up, I'll introduce the girls to him as "Hey, this one is my new
little
sister, and I am marrying this one, blha, blah....."
Translation: Little Sister and Marriage frames/routines are burnt! Do
not use them!


*****Wingman Rapport:
Do not face girls standing side to side. Face your wingman. He is cooler than
the chicks. As a matter of fact, they [Girls] should be attempting to break
into your circle of fun, and becoming part of it.
DW and I run routines that we would not be able to do solo. When we bust on the
girls (During attract phase), WE HIGH-FIVE Each other! Girls can see that we
can have fun with or without them. In fact, such antics have prompted comments
such as “You guys are having too much fun!”


*****Social proofing:
Social proof your wingman in front of his target. Tell stories about him which
he cannot tell himself.
Let’s say your wing has a certain skill or certification (i.e Great Martial
Artist, musician, real estate guru, certified hypnotist, whatever). He can’t
really talk about it because it would be bragging or qualifying himself. It
would make him look very AFC.
However, if you say it about him, it’s coming from a third party and it makes
all the difference in the world. You can even take it a step further.
Here is something I do that you can use as well:
The following champions and lionizes your wingman exponentially.
If or When your wingman steps away for a minute, brag about him in a nonchalant
way:
“Hey, did you guys know that my wingman is one of the best in such and such
field? Don’t mention it in front of him (or don’t tell him I told you that.) He
does not like to brag.”
Example:
“Did you know Mystery levitated over Niagara Falls? It was pretty awesome, etc,
etc….Don’t tell him I told you about that. He doesn’t like bragging....”

Now, how fucking cool is that?
Not only your wingman is so accomplished, but he is so damn cool, confident,
secure, and modest that he would not like it mentioned!


Lastly, many a time, Wingmen behave similar to antibodies. For those who need
to brush up on elementary biology: When foreign organisms enters the body, the
body produces antibodies which attach themselves to these invaders and destroy
them.
Great wingmen are like having these antibodies. They latch on to the obstacles
and disarm them meanwhile giving you the opportunity to work on your target.

Follow these and ya shall be a great wingman too, one day.
Author:  Smoke [ Thu May 11, 2006 12:03 pm ]
Post subject:  But what if.....
the following situation occurs: (This is just hypothetical cuz I mostly sarge alone)

Let´s say I am wing to my buddy and he opens up a 4 set. There is one HB10 and the rest are 7´s at most. As HE´s the one who has opened the set, HE controls the set. Now he signals for me to join. It´s obvious to me that the HB10 is his target, so as a good wing I step in and engage the other girls in conversation to give my buddy more time and room to work on the HB10. All is going fine...the 7´s are laughing and responding well to me. Now the following situation unfolds....The HB10 upon noticing me and her friends are having a good time, starts giving me IOI´s. Maybe even kino. I signal to my buddy that he should work the target more. Get him to hold her attention. He tries, but obviously the target seems more attracted to me than my buddy. I ignore the target completely by turning my back to her and facing the 7´s. She repositions herself in such a way that I can no longer ignore her. She leans in pretending to hear what I´m saying to her friends and why we are having such a good time.
It gets to the point where I no longer feel comfortable and neither is my buddy.
What would a good wing do at this point. Eject from the set? Should both of us eject from the set?
Theoretically if I start negging the target hard, chances are she becomes more and more interested in me, and the last thing I want to do is embarass my buddy in front of HIS set.

This hasn´t happened yet, but I can imagine that if I have a buddy that I sarge with regularly, and this happens on several occasions, he would nolonger want to sarge with me.

I am curious about your opinions on this and what you guys would do in a similar situation. Let me know!

Smoke
Author:  BackUp [ Thu May 11, 2006 12:10 pm ]
Post subject: 
your wing should also be your good buddy.
Me and PLAN had had such a situation:
The target was more into him than into me, as we realized this, we changed positions, i worked the obsticles while he isolated the target, although i had opened the set. Don't give a fuck about one set, he is your buddy, let him enjoy himself :D
Author:  spellbinder [ Thu Jul 13, 2006 7:51 pm ]
Post subject: 
Don't forget that all can be over done. Just be AFC.
If You say to your friends target "Nice tits....". Then you are just a AFC to her. Do all the things you just un-learned. Brag about yor great job, your millions....
Do all the wrong things for the target.
Ofcause don't overdue it. Then you lose the rest of the group.

But do seperation/splitting. Move the target away. Maybe just 10 meters. And turn her toward you. (Hold her hand, do palm-reading, cold-reading,......)




Thanks for the rules we got the same topic in the danish forum. But the part about body-position.... Great.
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