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Talk about over analyzing something good.

Well, if quarterbacks secure a Hail Mary, they just thank the higher powers and laugh about it. They don't spend the rest of the match or the day, analyzing what happened there.

If you got lucky, grin and work with it. She's a beautiful girl and she's giving you signs of interest.

Now, go ahead and get her. Don't think too much about it.

I'll definitely look into her, I've been lead on/let down so many times in the past so I never get my hopes up until at least after a good first time hanging out. Still waiting for her to reply to a text I sent earlier though. I hope she doesn't flake as I don't have any other girls to game at the moment.

I just sent: I just made you open your phone for no reason, looks like I got you in check

Also I don't have an iphone, I have a droid. Any background check apps for android?

Never mind, after her seeming a little disinterested in the texts today I suggested she meet up with me (2nd time in two days) and she gave me a "and do what" answer which I didn't know how to respond to. So I ignored her for a few hours and just had a convo on facebook. 20 minutes ago. I think she's a fake. Bummer:

Her: You're a horrible texter lol
Me: Thank you

, I hate texting
Her: How rude
Me: Why? I actually like to meet and talk to people
Her: Haha, Okay then get on that
Me: What do you mean by that?
Her: Take it however you want babe

Me: Honestly, your really really confusing
Her: It happens

Me: I'm not even sure your real, there's a lot of weird people on POF that pose as cute girls...of course you could easily prove that wrong.
Her: Okay yeah, you keep saying this but I'm over it. Take care

????????????????? I have no clue what just happened there but I'm leaving it as is. I think she's a fake.

Times like these, makes me smile and light a cigarette. If you had just followed what I told you..

Author:	chazman0426 [ Mon Aug 22, 2011 1:36 pm ]
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Hey, I've been gaming this chick(a 10) on POF for the past 2 weeks. She actually messaged me first. Her: Hey there Me: Hey whatsup? So your a make up artist? That's pretty neat. What's your story? Do you go to (nearby university) Her: Hey there I'm not up to much at the moment. I am a make up artist it's pretty awesome lol my story is far too long and complicated to type and no I just live here What about you? Me: (3 days later) Hey, sorry for the delay. I've been pretty slammed this week and forget about this site. Anyway, my story is also pretty long, not sure where to start. PS: I'd give you my #, but not sure if I can trust you. How do I know your not some crazy 52 year old women Her: Lol I'm defiantly not crazy or 52 but it's cool Me:Arighty then, I'll take my chances anyway, text me ...if your not too shy ..My # Now just don't be sending me 50 texts in a row like the last crazy girl Her: You text me when you think you can handle it. ..Her # So I've been texting her the past few days and she's very responsive. She added me on facebook pretty quickly, and the same night I was a little tipsy and was throwing a lot of cocky funny texts at her but when I didn't respond for like 30 min (she sent me a 2nd text saying I was bad at texting ect.) Yesterday she sent me one asking how my day was. Then this morning I get a message on facebook "lol" I'm just saying things are starting to look too good to be true. I've never had a girl give me this much attention let alone a 10/10 without me even using that much game. She is a local model supposedly by looking at her facebook pics. She has tons of guy friends (what 10/10 wouldn't) but less friends than I have (10's usually have like 1000 rather than like 200). I'm just wondering if she may be a 2 or 3 fattie in disguise or some crazy person and if any of you guys had a similar thing happen and it turn out to be a fake. Her pics on facebook (only 5) seem genuine and some seem really model like but still her so if it's a fake it's kinda clever. Any thoughts? I'm about to go for the meetup but I guess anticipate her totally not looking like the pictures. I'd just meet her at a public place just in case she's crazy or something. Maybe I'm being paranoid.

Author:	dlightmen [ Mon Aug 22, 2011 1:57 pm ]
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Do a background check. If you have an iPhone there is an app called beenVerified. You get one free background check per month, and the app is free from the app store. P.s. Hope it works out! I've caught the "lucky train" like that twice! It's an awesome feeling, huh?

Author:	Don Draper [ Mon Aug 22, 2011 3:51 pm ]
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Talk about over analyzing something good. Well, if quarterbacks secure a Hail Mary, they just thank the higher powers and laugh about it. They don't spend the rest of the match or the day, analyzing what happened there. If you got lucky, grin and work with it. She's a beautiful girl and she's giving you signs of interest. Now, go ahead and get her. Don't think too much about it.

Author:	dlightmen [ Mon Aug 22, 2011 4:54 pm ]
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Quote: Talk about over analyzing something good. Well, if quarterbacks secure a Hail Mary, they just thank the higher powers and laugh about it. They don't spend the rest of the match or the day, analyzing what happened there. If you got lucky, grin and work with it. She's a beautiful girl and she's giving you signs of interest. Now, go ahead and get her. Don't think too much about it. Are you serious? Why not be sure for free??? I got hit on by an attractive 8.5 that was charged in another state with possession of a concealed weapon and felony burglary??? That was a download well spent...

Author:	chazman0426 [ Mon Aug 22, 2011 6:23 pm ]
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I'll definitely look into her, I've been lead on/let down so many times in the past so I never get my hopes up until at least after a good first time hanging out. Still waiting for her to reply to a text I sent earlier though. I hope she doesn't flake as I don't have any other girls to game at the moment. I just sent: I just made you open your phone for no reason, looks like I got you in check Also I don't have an iphone, I have a droid. Any background check apps for android?

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Author:	dlightmen [ Mon Aug 22, 2011 7:47 pm ]
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Quote: I'll definitely look into her, I've been lead on/let down so many times in the past so I never get my hopes up until at least after a good first time hanging out. Still waiting for her to reply to a text I sent earlier though. I hope she doesn't flake as I don't have any other girls to game at the moment. I just sent: I just made you open your phone for no reason, looks like I got you in check Also I don't have an iphone, I have a droid. Any background check apps for android? https://market.android.com/developer?pu ... rified.com Just a tip. I was gaming a 9+ a while back, and those cheesy lines kinda turned her off. I'd stock with being yourself, witty, and funny. Don't crowd her. Even if it takes a few days, wait to see if they'll text u first. Also, here's where I fucked it up. She asked me out, and I jumped on it, and stopped being a challenge. I ljbf myself by doing that.

Author:	chazman0426 [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 1:43 am ]
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Never mind, after her seeming a little disinterested in the texts today I suggested she meet up with me (2nd time in two days) and she gave me a "and do what" answer which I didn't know how to respond to. So I ignored her for a few hours and just had a convo on facebook. 20 minutes ago. I think she's a fake. Bummer: Her: You're a horrible texter lol Me: Thank you , I hate texting Her: How rude Me: Why? I actually like to meet and talk to people Her: Haha, Okay then get on that Me: What do you mean by that? Her: Take it however you want babe Me: Honestly, your really really confusing Her: It happens Me: I'm not even sure your real, there's a lot of weird people on POF that pose as cute girls...of course you could easily prove that wrong. Her: Okay yeah, you keep saying this but I'm over it. Take care ????????????????? I have no clue what just happened there but I'm leaving it as is. I think she's a fake.

Author:	dlightmen [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 4:29 am ]
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I'm replying on top cuz my iPad is difficult to scroll with a full text box..... I think she was legit, and you pissed her off, dude. Any other opinions???? Quote: Never mind, after her seeming a little disinterested in the texts today I suggested she meet up with me (2nd time in two days) and she gave me a "and do what" answer which I didn't know how to respond to. So I ignored her for a few hours and just had a convo on facebook. 20 minutes ago. I think she's a fake. Bummer: Her: You're a horrible texter lol Me: Thank you , I hate texting Her: How rude Me: Why? I actually like to meet and talk to people Her: Haha, Okay then get on that Me: What do you mean by that? Her: Take it however you want babe Me: Honestly, your really really confusing Her: It happens Me: I'm not even sure your real, there's a lot of weird people on POF that pose as cute girls...of course you could easily prove that wrong. Her: Okay yeah, you keep saying this but I'm over it. Take care ????????????????? I have no clue what just happened there but I'm leaving it as is. I think she's a fake.

Author:	Don Draper [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 10:18 am ]
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Times like these, makes me smile and light a cigarette. If you had just followed what I told you..

Author:	chazman0426 [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 11:13 am ]
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I don't know, something about her didn't seem right. Ex: Only 5 pics on her facebook. Couldn't give me a straight answer when the subject of meeting up came up. Whatever...I'm out, I don't have time for these types of games hot or not, real or not.

Author:	biggus [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 1:16 pm ]
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Dont be afraid to take the step and push it to the next level, if she was hot you have gained everything, if she was a faker you can say you were mislead no real harm done. Whats the worst that can happen? If it was some 400lb dude I suppose he could drug you or some shit and you wake up the next day with memory loss and an arse like a broken catflap... hmm yeah just focus on the positives tbh haha! Either way your actions = /facepalm as Don said.

Author:	chazman0426 [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 4:07 pm ]
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I don't understand what I did wrong besides coming on too strong or too soon but she kept texting me and flirting with me(she started it), I suggested a meet up twice in 3 days but she kept giving weird BS answers like "and do what" and "whatever you want". Then she contacted me on facebook which I posted above and things were over. I mean what are you suppose to say to that, If she were interested and/or joking I would think she would eventually come around and agree but she hasn't. Otherwise I'm led to assume it's some fattie or fag dude fucking around with me with a fake profile. I think when I suggested "she isn't real" and how quickly she ended it there and has yet to get back to me is also a red flag if not obvious. I did a google search and her image is like the first result. Another red flag.

Author:	OG_Kdub [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 7:49 pm ]
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There was a movie documentary like this. The guy met a girl on facebook they talk back and forth everything sounds great but when they decide to meet up, something comes up on her end. Make a long story short he and his friend go to her city and find out the hot girl he was talking to is really an ugly 30-40 something house wife. So its very possible she was a fake...Don't stress it.

Author:	dlightmen [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 8:58 pm ]
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Quote: Times like these, makes me smile and light a cigarette. If you had just followed what I told you.. Or ran a FREE background check. I'm sipping a shot of Blanton's as I smoke mine. :p

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Author:	chazman0426 [ Tue Aug 30, 2011 8:12 pm ]
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Ok so I drop her and move on and a week later this morning at 2AM (when I was asleep) she texted me. So I texted her back the next day (14 hours later) Her: Hey.... Me: Whatsup drama queen? Her: Haha def. Not a drama queen I just don't have time for bs Me: Neither do I Her: Good to know. Left it at that. Don't know where to take this. I'm not going to bring up the subject of meeting her for a 3rd time. I'm just going to have her take the wheel on this one. If she's real, hopefully she stops the head games but if she's fake at least it's good practice. It just occurred to me is that the reason I'm suspicious is because 1. Women that are as attractive as her (in the pics) normally are not this needy/full of games or so the PUA community teaches. If they are then maybe they have deeper issues I should steer clear of? They always have options and other men. Why bother. 2. If she was real, I feel like It would be the other way around instead of her texting me randomly ect. I can't be her only option. If I am, maybe she's fake? Women are strange.