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| Author: | ironmon23 [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 2:51 am ] |
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Me: Hey goofball! I can already tell we wouldn't get along. we're too similar, we both like to rock the fuck out in life... the earth would probably explode if we hung out because of too much superpower in one place! you get a coolness point for that ....get 15 and you get the special prize...hit me back Her: lmfao you're such a dork! & thanks for the point i guess... lolz So far this is how the conversation is going, I'm kind of clueless what to write.. right now lol |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 10:01 am ] |
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Yeah, the whole "let me award you points" routine just makes me cringe. It is NOT a quiz show. It's pick up. Worked for you. Well done. Now, take the conversation to something substantial. "Why yes, I am a dork! The Few. The Proud. The Strong.  So.. how's it going there?"
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| Author: | ironmon23 [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 12:39 pm ] |
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Update Me: Tell me three things about yourself that's relatively different from every other person? Maybe I will you add up some more points if I think there really that cool Her: 1. My parents are both Cuban & I have a white name. 2. I own a boxer who I named Bentley because I LOVE cars. 3. I'm not afraid to be upfront & tell you how it is. I'm bold & daring (; Me: Oh, I thought your name was Turkish or something..it's so unique (sarcastic face) and you LOVE cars..it shows me your a high maintenance person that loves luxurious cars (but who doesn't) and are u daring enough to buy me some ice cream Her: lmfao! yeah I guess I'm a bit high maintenance but don't worry I take care of myself. & sure why not? hahaha so how bout you tell me 3 things about yourself. Outside of the usual stuff I hear... Me: . I love exploring new things, for instance I want to go sky diving on my birthday this year. 2. I work in a after school program with Elementary kids. I enjoy the every minute of it. 3. I love letting loose and going out to clubs and bars. I will start calling you Miss. Independent since you can take care of yourself, haha and I like pistachio ice cream you should take notes for that Her: oh damn I'm so down I wanna sky dive too ;P & yesss I'm very independent I work for my shit. So I want to transition to a number close, you think it's too early? |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 2:30 pm ] |
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Yes, it is too early. I'm pretty good at the online game. Remember this : You need to build at least comfort over a 5-7 days period involving plenty of messages. Women rarely trust strangers online. It's mainly due to the fact that all they have to go by on a person is his pictures, which might as well be fake or photoshopped. So, my advice is spend some time, be patient and when you've built enough comfort, even if it takes a week, go for the number. When done correctly, she will never refuse to give it to you. |
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| Author: | ironmon23 [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 3:00 pm ] |
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I'm kind of blank at the moment? Any suggestions on a reply, right now? |
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| Author: | 1 Exclusive [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 3:14 pm ] |
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Perhaps mention something about the Sky diving? "Have you seen the skydiving training facility in Las vegas?" or "Since your so independent i'll let you go by yourself whilst I skydive laughing at you scream haha" Make a joke of it, or ask her if she want's to go. Don't use these as they are, adapt them to your personality then go for it. Just examples I can think of within seconds as you need an urgent reply! Exclusive. |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 3:33 pm ] |
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Quote: I'm kind of blank at the moment?
There's a basic rule : If you don't like what's being said, change the conversation.Any suggestions on a reply, right now? Every single time that you feel like you've hit a snag or a dead end in the convo, change it to some topic you are comfortable discussing, something you can talk about for hours. Keep changing topics often, there will be no sense of boredom in the interaction. |
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| Author: | ironmon23 [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 12:50 am ] |
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Just a quick update, I took Don Draper's advice and started changing the topic a bit, after a few days of messaging back. Got her number and met up with her at school to show her around and I'm working on another meet-up . 
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