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Author:  catfish007 [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 3:43 am ]
Post subject:  Need advice responding to message on POF

Hi... I need advice. There's a 10 that I am working on. We are emailing now. I contacted her, she contacted me back, She asked me three questions, I ignored her questions and described an outstanding place that I just went to that was awesome and if she ... . She responded "how come you haven't answered my questions". I think if she takes control she's gone. What do I do next about her questions? I need to get face to face asap with her.

Thanx Masters

Author:  Jackson Reinerman [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 5:33 am ]
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Personally, I would avoid answering her questions, and reply something like: "I can't answer your questions here as this would make me seem far less interesting and mysterious than I am ;) Besides, I'd have to look you in the eyes to see how you respond. How about we meet for a coffee and a chat?"

you'd have to come up with some good original answers to her questions though, if you are to pull this off...

Author:  catfish007 [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 6:08 am ]
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Nice! If she can control me online she'll pass me up like a bullet train!

Great answer

Author:  pumpington [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 10:39 am ]
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you have one chance at life, we cant spend our whole lives asking questions, like what if

Author:  Don Draper [ Sat Jul 30, 2011 3:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need advice responding to message on POF

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Hi... I need advice. There's a 10 that I am working on. We are emailing now. I contacted her, she contacted me back, She asked me three questions, I ignored her questions and described an outstanding place that I just went to that was awesome and if she ... . She responded "how come you haven't answered my questions". I think if she takes control she's gone. What do I do next about her questions? I need to get face to face asap with her.

Thanx Masters

That just might be the stupidest and the most cowardly thing I've read all week.

You are assuming SO much, that it's not even funny.

Just answer her questions already. Nobody likes coy. It might be fun, but not at the beginning. Be a man, give her three straight answers.

Author:  catfish007 [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 4:37 am ]
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DRAPER ... YOU MAY ACTUALLY BE THE HARDEST WORKING YET MOST PATHETIC AND CONFUSED GOOF AROUND. THIS IS A "GAME PERFECTING FORUM" NOT A "CONTINUE TO DO AS YOU ALWAYS HAVE DONE FORUM". THE GOAL IS "PERFECT PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT" ...

HOT BODY 10''S ARE EVERYWHERE ... LOOK AROUND ... LIFE IS TOO LONG NOT TO GET AS MANY OF THESE AS FWB'S, FNL'S, GIRLFRIENDS, WIVES WHATEVER YOU WANT AS OFTEN AS YOU WANT. YOU THINK LIFE IS TOO SHORT SO YOU RUN AROUND LIKE A CHICKEN WITHOUT A HEAD WITH NO GOALS OR PLAN ... QUALITY AND QUANTITY ... A SUBSTANTIVE HOT BODY 10 EACH TIME ... WILD IN THE BED AND THE BRAIN ... THAT MAKES LIFE SEEM SHORT BECAUSE EACH DAY PASSES COMPLETELY FULFILLED AS IF IT WAS 5 MINUTES LONG.

I WILL ANSWER HER QUESTIONS IN TIME BUT I CAN'T GO THROUGH AN ONLINE INTERVIEW FOR EVERY HOTTIE THAT WANTS TO TAKE OVER THE CONVERSATION. AS IT IS IN REAL LIFE WE CAN LICK THEIR SHOES LIKE YOU MOST LIKELY DO OR PLAY OUR GAME - WITH SOME SEMBLANCE OF MASCULINITY, BOUNDARY SETTING AND MYSTERY ... AN 8 YEAR OLD COULD HAVE MADE THE COMMENT YOU DID: "ANSWER HER QUESTIONS DUDE" JUST DON'T POST ANYMORE MAN ...

I'VE LOOKED AT YOUR POSTS AND THEY ARE A LITTLE SCARY! BEST OF LUCK TO THE DRAPER MAN.

Author:  noorosha [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 7:26 pm ]
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if she's demanding answers, insist on a "quid pro quo" situation, where you only give her one peice of info in exchange for something about her

get her to agree before you answer anything

if you're feeling particularly cocky-funny you can let your imagination run a little wild on the answers. Eg, if she asks what you do for a living say something like "I'm a shark-nutritionist. It's going pretty well. Never see a fat shark do you?" or something else similarly mad

enjoy!

Author:  catfish007 [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 10:10 pm ]
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Dear Noorosha,

That IS the way to go for sure. Keeping it real and balanced. You are a true Veteran. Thank you.

Catfish

Author:  noorosha [ Mon Aug 01, 2011 10:15 pm ]
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No worries - u can thank me if it works for you!

Author:  Bentley27 [ Wed Aug 03, 2011 6:43 am ]
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Answer the question then follow with your own. Make sure that are something you are actually interested in. Should be easy convo after that. Good luck homie!

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